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gexxxxxx

Scottsdale, AZ, USA

Anything, really. Coffee, food, movie, club.
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ncxxxxxx

Wilmington, NC, USA

Meet for coffee, sit and talk, then take a walk along beach or by the water, Ray
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Lixxxxxx

Clark, NJ, USA

coffee, simple lunch, happy hour for a cocktail at a classy place
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dixxxxxx

Santa Fe, NM, USA

Something casual...coffee or drinks...quiet conversation getting to know each other. Or maybe taking a hike/picnic in the mountains (just casual…no “127 Hours“ stuff…ha, ha).
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baxxxxxx

Chicago, IL, USA

i THINK THE BEST PLACE TO MEET IS AT STARBUCKS, A BOOK STORE, PARK OR ANY PUBLIC PLACE.
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maxxxxxx

Raleigh, NC, USA

My first date would be over coffee or a nice quite place to talk.
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daxxxxxx

Lima, OH, USA

Get creative and dont get nervous... just speak from the heart.. let the person know how i really feel about him...
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ofxxxxxx

Odessa, MO, USA

A great first date would be in a restaurant or coffee house just sitting, relaxing, having coffee and getting to know each other with casual conversation.
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mixxxxxx

Honolulu, HI, USA

meet at a cafe, mall, the beach, or a park, have a nice talk and go from there
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brxxxxxx

Chicago, IL, USA

It depends. A movie. Homecooked meal.
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fuxxxxxx

Amherst, MA, USA

Men are from Mars, Women - Venus. Not enamored by that word - date. 'Meeting' fits this Martian's vocab. 1st mtg - probably not too romantic from woman's point of view. I am used to hangin in groups and getting to know each other in that format, when things develop then paring off somewhat. That develops into "dating" in my nomenclature. So this arrangement is new to me. The latter (again my nomenclature) a "real date" with some one I know and have become infatuated in could be a nice sunny spring day, just the 2 of us at the ocean, sail from point A to B for lunch, sail back??? Spontaneity within that format and for the remainder of the day? I could take the lead in planning but really enjoy a mutually devised event.
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Hexxxxxx

Burbank, CA, USA

Great company, great conversation, laughter and if you have all that ... the rest is unimportant, as the rest will just flow nicely into whatever feels 'right'.
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goxxxxxx

Wellington, WGN, NZL

Meet for coffee and see how we get on and decide from there.
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dixxxxxx

Coatesville, PA, USA

Before meeting, I would prefer to speak with person on phone a few times before making plans.
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Jixxxxxx

Miami, FL, USA

Anywhere so both of us can have good conversation and no one is intimidated or uncomfortable in anyway.
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toxxxxxx

Fort Lauderdale, FL, USA

Have cocktails for 2 at a loungy bar or coffee/tea at nice cafe. Some where that we can talk and see if the connection is there. Then we can get creative and spontaneous.
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Toxxxxxx

Burlington, ON, CAN

We meet and go for a walk by the lake, have conversation over coffee or a drink and decide what to do about dinner,hopefully there will be chemistry !!!
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Chxxxxxx

Chicago, IL, USA

Coffee....we'd need to have a no pressure first meet just to see if there's any attraction and if not we'd both be honest about it and wish the other well with no hafrd feelings
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Mixxxxxx

Decatur, IL, USA

Coffee at Starbucks or Pizza !
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Hoxxxxxx

Mineola, NY, USA

I woild like to make my first date simple such as meeting for coffee.
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