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Juxxxxxx

Saint Charles, MO, USA

The perfect first meet would typically be in a coffee shop. Better to be a privately owned over the commercial if available; Private shops usually have better gooey pastries. Once covered in all the sticky goo from a dripping cinnamon roll, people tend to throw manners out and be a bit more like themselves and relax, especially after it’s stuck in the old goatee. Chat for a bit and if we connect we can go from there. I can be a bit old fashioned so please allow me to pay for at least this one, however I’m not opposed to discussing other arrangements if you have strong feelings regarding this subject. (we can arm wrestle for it)
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stxxxxxx

Bordentown, NJ, USA

nothing fancy,just coffee, buti drink tea, talk, but i am open
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joxxxxxx

Stanhope, NJ, USA

A casual meeting at a large bookstore/coffee shop to talk and can share favorite books if so inclined. This setting is usually friendly to lengthy stays/loitering and open late so if lost in conversation it won't be cut as short as some other options.
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asxxxxxx

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We can meet in some quiet cafe or have a lunch or cup of tea or coffee... We will talk to know each other better. Main thing - if we will have a "spark"... Then - we can walk along the water or have a candlelight dinner... Whatever next - will decide together.
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Swxxxxxx

Chicago, IL, USA

Meet at a coffee shop to talk and get to know each other. Only by actually sitting and talking, can one tell anything about the other person. If weather was nicer, could meet at a park, etc.
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vixxxxxx

Lebanon, PA, USA

My first date idea would be to go to a nice coffee shop. I really enjoy open mic and I believe the atmosphere makes things much less tense and awkward.
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mixxxxxx

Reading, PA, USA

maybe meet for coffee or a drink go for walk talk look at each other we will know
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Klxxxxxx

Boston, MA, USA

To meet at a cafe and converse over coffee.
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crxxxxxx

Kew Gardens, NY, USA

It would be just to meet to see if there is an attraction.
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lixxxxxx

North Springfield, VT, USA

My first date would be a getting together for coffee and a snack or light lunch, outside if weather permits.
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eaxxxxxx

Cincinnati, OH, USA

Coffee , drinks or dinner and a casual stroll with conversation, afterwards.
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Drxxxxxx

Naples, NY, USA

coffee at the diner in the early morning and the rest of the day spent on talking and listening to each other.
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doxxxxxx

Broken Arrow, OK, USA

Meet for a cup of coffee, get to know each other a little and take it from there. Go with the flow, if no flow go our separate ways after having a nice conversation and coffee with a new person that I got to meet and hang out with for a little bit. No Worries either 2 people click or they don't, nothing can be forced to "make an attraction between 2 people---it just happens or it just won't.
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brxxxxxx

Los Angeles, CA, USA

Great conversation in a relaxing setting - finding out if there's enough common ground and chemistry to want to see each other again
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Daxxxxxx

Richmond, VA, USA

Well taking in our shared interests, we would meet at a bookstore or coffee shop. We would be able to identify each other by our photos. From there we would get to know each other better and see if there is physical chemistry, and then stroll in the park, or continue talking, or wherever the night takes us. The possibilities are endless.
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chxxxxxx

Norwalk, OH, USA

I think a first date is a time to meet for a drink or coffee and see if there is any kind of "spark' and learn more about each other. And then set up another date to go out to dinner a movie, or something else of interest to both.
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suxxxxxx

West Haven, CT, USA

meet for coffeeand conversation, I live near the beach,close to coffee house,,love walks picnics,no bars,
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Yoxxxxxx

Wappingers Falls, NY, USA

Meet for coffee or drinks. I would like to get a change to talk and see if there is chemistry.
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sgxxxxxx

Medford, MA, USA

Taking a walk by the pond or just sitting at a cafe and having some lunch or coffee.
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Myxxxxxx

East Greenwich, RI, USA

I think it should be simple. (I assume we're talking about our first meeting. There has to be a first meeting before a first date.) So I'd say coffee or tea. In an open place with open space (and with plenty of room for our bodyguards so they can mill around without being noticed).
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