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rexxxxxx

San Antonio, TX, USA

Coffee and conversation at a Barnes and Nobles(bookstore with a cafe inside) or a coffee shop and afterwards a romantic walk in the park.
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Baxxxxxx

Sprague, WA, USA

Just a nice easy meeting, start with coffee at a café, and if it seems right a walk, to continue the talk. After that if the feeling is right, we will part for the night, after making plans for another meeting. Or start with coffee and then take in a local event. I favor daytime for first meetings (seems more honest to me,- and this little barbarian is much less scary in the daylight, Hee hee ha.)
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Anxxxxxx

Port Richey, FL, USA

Meet for coffee first and if there seems to be interest and chemistry will make a date from there!!!!
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Msxxxxxx

Reynoldsburg, OH, USA

Ah this is such a "trick" question. The range varies. I mean if we are talking first date then it has to be some where where we can sit and chat. Get a feel for the chemistry. Get to know one another a bit. Giggle at each other and share some of our little nuances that make us special. That would be really hard to do at the movies or some loud concert etc. After that again the dates vary, from dinners of new and exciting food (no sense opinion just going to the same ol' same ol' everytime). To events like concerts, plays, bike rides, sporting events etc. I am a big music fan and so love to go to live music shows in small and large venues. If you don't like music then I am betting we won't mesh well Also like visiting art shows, museum exhibits etc. feeding the mind with beautiful imagery usually prompts some great conversations. Then there is parachuting, hiking, biking, the zoo, amusement parks, and on and on. There is no shortage of great and ideal date ideas.
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enxxxxxx

Glendale, AZ, USA

I would chat over coffee and if it was impressive..go for a walk and do some window shopping.
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Stxxxxxx

Mount Prospect, IL, USA

Let's meet for coffee or lunch and get to know each other and see where it goes from here.
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Trxxxxxx

Kapaau, HI, USA

Meeting, greeting and a bit of sharing...Nothing fancy. We will know within that time what the future holds.
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Spxxxxxx

Fort Lauderdale, FL, USA

Something informal maybe a cafe or just coffee works as well.
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Stxxxxxx

Richmond, VA, USA

Coffee is cool. I would like to find out if we can have a conversation.
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skxxxxxx

Smithtown, NY, USA

We could get a cup of coffee somewhere.
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laxxxxxx

LEC, GBR

Get to know you in a nice atmosphere.
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aaxxxxxx

Schenectady, NY, USA

The first time we meet should be brief, over a cup of coffee or a drink,so that we can escape easily if we don't click. We should each have some place to get to at a certain time so that we can leave withot making the other person feel rejected. We don't need to be bored with someone we've already decided is not for us. That means no movies, not restaurant dinners, no clubs, no long activities like the beach or a hike. Just a little conversation to see if we like each other. Like in a Barnes and Noble, or Starbucks, or diner, or anything like that.
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roxxxxxx

Jacksonville, FL, USA

Beach is over rated, but want to go somewhere we can talk and get to know each other ... maybe race go karts ....
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stxxxxxx

Hockley, TX, USA

A coffee shop or restaurant. Somewhere we can talk and have great conversation and get to know each other. Then, maybe a walk, window shopping??...not wanting the evening to end! :)
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paxxxxxx

Kihei, HI, USA

In warm weather, we would enjoy sitting on a blanket near the ocean or in a park conversing while enjoying fruit, cheese, special bread, and wine. If a rainy or cold day, a nice fireplace doing all of the above.
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foxxxxxx

Murfreesboro, TN, USA

our first date idea to me, will be just a meeting in a coffee shop, and talk to get to know each other, then we can plan a second date if all is okey with both of us.
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arxxxxxx

DEV, GBR

How about we have brunch together and see how it goes between us. If it goes well, next time we go out to dinner. Is that a plan?
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coxxxxxx

Davison, MI, USA

A good place to meet someone for the first time would be someplace quiet such as a coffee shop. Then maybe afterwards going to a movie.
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trxxxxxx

Ski, Akershus, NOR

I dont have anything here now. don't really understand the meaning of this
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crxxxxxx

CA, USA

I'd like our first meeting to be casual & informal, whether going for coffee or a glass of wine. A great place to meet for a stroll and easy conversation is the Ocean Front Walk in Venice, watching the setting sun & people watching along the way. If we're mutually attracted to one another & there's real chemistry, let's get together again very soon for dinner at a romantic cafe or bistro, where we can get to know each other better and talk about our interests, experiences, and plans for the future.
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