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Daxxxxxx

DC, USA

Nice resturant suitable for discussion. I would like to hear about your life and tell you about my life.
Category: Dinner
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toxxxxxx

DOR, GBR

Start at Costa and go from there
Category: Walking or Hiking
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auxxxxxx

West Haven, CT, USA

Lunch, coffee, drinks, walk on the beach?
Category: Cafe
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kixxxxxx

NLD

a honest and open discussion, with respect for the outcome of that.
Category: Others
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frxxxxxx

Grove City, PA, USA

A NICE DINNER WOULD BE NICE AND MAYBE DANCING OR EVEN A MOVIE
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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Moxxxxxx

Kingsport, TN, USA

I think it would be fun to meet or go together to a low-key cafe (not too noisy) - or some place to have a quirky lunch or drinks; where we can also delve into some mindful conversation, learning more about each other with some stimulating and engaging reparte`!! You never know how things will develop; (( therefore, if we go alone and "meet", we're both able to bid "adieu" if desired, and neither is obligated.)) Hopefully we can both learn what we like and see how things go ....!!?? ;-) (maybe make plans for a follow-up date!!??) hmmmm... what do u think?? let me know!?? .... write on my comments or e-mail me if ur a paid member!!? let me know what u think of my profile!! ... thnx ..."ME" !!
Category: Culinary Adventures
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Fixxxxxx

SWE

Why not a coffee followed by a walk
Category: Cafe
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mixxxxxx

NJ, USA

Bring a picnic lunch to a local airport and watch the planes land, a stroll in a botanical garden or a visit to the zoo.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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waxxxxxx

Charles Town, WV, USA

Brunch, lunch, dinner or a quick cup of coffee.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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woxxxxxx

Kellogg, IA, USA

a simple meeting for coffee/lunch/brunch and much conversation and general hilarity ...
Category: Others
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Maxxxxxx

Berkeley, CA, USA

Well, you probably want to vet me to make sure I'm not a psychopath. After that, we could take an airport-date: both go to the airport and watch the passersby and make up stories about them, trying to figure them out. Then we could stop some of them, politely explain what we're doing, and find out whether some of our guesses were right. OK, yeah, I can do the normal stuff they talk about on these sites too. *laugh* I'm afraid you'll have to find someone else to take you into outer space. You can have your blast-off in my bedroom, though. I'll be piloting you the whole way...
Category: Others
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Hoxxxxxx

Woodland, WA, USA

Brunch in a quiet cafe followed by a leisurely stroll in a park.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Nixxxxxx
Meet for lunch, coffee or drinks and converse.
Category: Lunch
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luxxxxxx

Albany, NY, USA

Meet for a cup of coffee, tea, hot cocoa, or chai and see whether we "connect"....keep it light and pressure free!
Category: Cafe
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pexxxxxx

San Diego, CA, USA

I'm fairly certain there's an unwritten law around online first dates.... Coffee or a drink only, never commit to dinner. If it's good, take the leap to a meal. If it's bad you can guzzle your drink and politely bolt!
Category: Drinks
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GAxxxxxx

Orlando, FL, USA

Someplace where we can perhaps get a dessert and something to drink and be able to talk without being rushed.
Category: Cafe
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laxxxxxx

Montreal, QC, CAN

first meeting that says it all. For safety's sake it must always be in a public location, never for a long drawn out setting like a meal or movie. It should be just for a coffee because you dint want to spend hours with someone that you don't feel attracted to and it is best to get that part over as soon as possible. If during this meeting you do feel mutual attraction, you can always decide to spend more time together that same evening or make a date.
Category: Others
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Grxxxxxx

Jasper, AL, USA

ok I'm not good at this but maybe a coffee shop or ice cream parlor lol
Category: Cafe
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blxxxxxx

Tracy, CA, USA

Let's find some art to buy and wine to drink...
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Chxxxxxx

ESP

Location is only important as far as a quiet comfortable relaxed place to talk for a while... I would like to meet the person before deciding on where to go next. I am very adventurous as far as food is concerned, so there are lots of great options as far as dining out goes. Museums, art galleries, the countryside, a comfy sofa, a bench on the shore...
Category: Cafe
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