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Sexxxxxx

MD, USA

I want my lady to be comfortable. A cup of coffee, a drink....lunch, dinner (eventually breakfast!) I enjoy being outdoors in nice weather. I love both nature and the City. Maybe a museum visit?
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nixxxxxx

DEU

A meeting at a nice cafe or a restaurant and we take it from there.
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yoxxxxxx

Los Angeles, CA, USA

Get to know each other over coffee...
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jsxxxxxx

Boynton Beach, FL, USA

First date is really a meeting. Let's get to know each other at Starbucks.
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spxxxxxx

Thousand Oaks, CA, USA

Meet and greet over drinks or coffee or your favorite beverage, talk, joke, share experiences...get to know each other and evaluate the chemistry. First impressions are lasting so dress appropriately. That means no flip-flops.
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Hoxxxxxx

Toms River, NJ, USA

I consider the first date to be a first meet to see if there's any sparks. If so we can either extend it or plan a date. I'm very creative when it comes to the actual date so get ready to have a blast!
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Trxxxxxx

Phoenix, AZ, USA

How about we just meet somewhere and see if there are any sparks to be seen....
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itxxxxxx

Dundee, MI, USA

Will update very soon within the next 24 hours...out of town on business and heading for home.
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auxxxxxx

West Haven, CT, USA

Lunch, coffee, drinks, walk on the beach?
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Fixxxxxx

SWE

Why not a coffee followed by a walk
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anxxxxxx

Toronto, ON, CAN

ok how about this? we meet. as it's a meeting, not a date. we have 10 minutes. i ask you my list of q's for 5 you ask me your list of q's for 5 after the 10 is up..we are totally honest as to whether we want to take the time to talk some more ;)
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poxxxxxx

AM, BRA

I am a young educated person who is crazy about traveling, i have been to more than 35 countries already, always alone but I am looking for a travel partner now
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Coxxxxxx

Bloomington, IN, USA

My ideal first date would meeting for coffee and chatting and getting to know each other
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suxxxxxx

San Jose, CA, USA

Something casual nothing loud just a simple walk in the park, or a conversation at starbucks coffee
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luxxxxxx

Albany, NY, USA

Meet for a cup of coffee, tea, hot cocoa, or chai and see whether we "connect"....keep it light and pressure free!
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GAxxxxxx

Orlando, FL, USA

Someplace where we can perhaps get a dessert and something to drink and be able to talk without being rushed.
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Grxxxxxx

Jasper, AL, USA

ok I'm not good at this but maybe a coffee shop or ice cream parlor lol
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Chxxxxxx

ESP

Location is only important as far as a quiet comfortable relaxed place to talk for a while... I would like to meet the person before deciding on where to go next. I am very adventurous as far as food is concerned, so there are lots of great options as far as dining out goes. Museums, art galleries, the countryside, a comfy sofa, a bench on the shore...
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bexxxxxx

Packwood, WA, USA

Coffee and conversation so we can get to know each other, to see if there's a "connection" that we can follow up on.
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woxxxxxx

Berkeley, CA, USA

IT DEPENDS ON THE WOMAN, AND THE RELATIONSHIP AIMS. GIVEN YOU DONT REALLY KNOW MUCH FROM PHOTOS AND PROFILES, I WOULD SAY A COFFEE DATE IS WISEST.....FIRST....... UNLESS SOME REALLY NICE PHONE TALK LETS ME KNOW WE WILL ENJOY OUR COMPANY, THEN A DINNER OUT IS NICE.
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