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laxxxxxx

Fredericksburg, VA, USA

Go out to a nice restaurant and just talks a little about ourselves and also general things in life.
Category: Museums and Galleries
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SHxxxxxx

Los Angeles, CA, USA

Lets meet at a social/ public place where we can meet and get to know each other a little.
Category: Cafe
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taxxxxxx

Dundalk, MD, USA

Tea for two ,etc at my place, cuddling, movies, dancing, etc.
Category: The Movies
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ouxxxxxx

Tulsa, OK, USA

Coffee and conversation. Dinner would be fine also.
Category: Others
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bixxxxxx

Pleasant Valley, NY, USA

I don't have any pre-set ideas about what to do, such as "walking on the beach". These all seem to be ideas that I think people get from romance novels or movies. I've seen this type of idea so many times, it hardly seems original; as if no real thought went into it. To be honest, I don't have an idea for a first date. I suppose the best idea would be to talk it over beforehand, or to just 'wing it'. All those so-called romantic ideas seem so phony to me. And since I'm not writing a novel, the reality is that it should be an idea from BOTH of us, since the idea should be meant to benefit BOTH of us.
Category: Others
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adxxxxxx

Scottsdale, AZ, USA

Meeting first for coffee to see if the great conversation and chemistry is there.
Category: Dinner
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Fixxxxxx

Mount Kisco, NY, USA

I would enjoy going for a long walk so we could talk and get to know each other. If we get along we could finish off the day with a nice dinner to continue our conversation.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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mmxxxxxx

Long Beach, CA, USA

Let's meet for coffee or a drink at the Seal Beach Pier for a romantic walk or short meeting to see if there are sparks.
Category: Others
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Daxxxxxx

NA, GBR

Meet for drinks at a place of your choosing ... somewhere you'd feel comfortable and safe. Somewhere from which you'd be able to make a swift getaway if you didn't like the look of me!!
Category: Drinks
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buxxxxxx

Albuquerque, NM, USA

How's about starting off with a great meal at a nice restaurant. Then going for a drive and talk or ending up at a dance hall or just listening to music together.
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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Loxxxxxx

HAM, GBR

Keep it simple and go for a coffee. The aim is to make it as easy-going and relaxed as possible so we can get to know each other a little.
Category: Cafe
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spxxxxxx

Orlando, FL, USA

How about a home made meal, with romactic music, exploring our potenially mutual interest.
Category: Dinner
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mixxxxxx

Charleston, SC, USA

A quite place to be able to hear what the other person is saying, but by all means a public place. Dinner or just coffee.
Category: Dinner
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pixxxxxx

Houston, TX, USA

A first date should be an event - not just a date. I believe that a first date should start in the day time. Perhaps a drink at a fun and pleasant lounge or join some friends for an entertaining event. This provides an opportunity for both to determine if a longer time together is desired without being tortured with an evening of distasteful events seeking a way to dislodge oneself from the date. If both are enjoying the time together, the evening would encompass dinner and an evening of exposing my date to whatever she has never done before. The first date should be a casual fun day followed by a romantic evening at a seaside establishment and than surprise after surprise. My date will experience an event, not just a date. Remember the world has much to offer and we would spend our time together finding everything available. I could give a detailed description of the date which is what this section is about, but I believe one should experience life, not read about it, therefore I am going to keep the details a surprise, one that you will feel safe in, enjoy and never forget.
Category: Others
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Hixxxxxx

Meerssen, LI, NLD

Quiet dinner and a stroll through the City Center area of Meerssen in the Netherlands or other interesting cities and towns in nearby Belgium, Germany, and Luxembourg.
Category: Dinner
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Kaxxxxxx

Santa Monica, CA, USA

Meet for coffee, drink and conversation.
Category: Others
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muxxxxxx

Eugene, OR, USA

A nice candlelight dinner would be nice or a romantic place on the water. Just talking & relaxing, getting to know each other would be nice.
Category: Others
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maxxxxxx

San Marcos, CA, USA

Meet you at a local Bistro or coffee shop for lunch? Coffee? Or a glass of wine? Your choice.
Category: Culinary Adventures
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rixxxxxx

Raleigh, NC, USA

Somewhere we can hear each other!!
Category: Culinary Adventures
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jjxxxxxx

Niantic, CT, USA

Whatever we're both comfortable with.
Category: Others
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