FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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walk a concert a club dinner.anything shed like to do.flowers a ice cream cone horse back riding
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Casual lunch, some fish perhaps and wine as we get acquainted.
Category: Lunch
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I open to ideas. However, a home cooked meal would be just fine. Alternatively, a dinner outing to a bistro. I'm not fussy about food. I would also go out on a playful outdoor outing
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I'ld like us to be at a nice place and get to know more about each other and see where it lead us to...
Category: Lunch
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Informal cafe meeting would be fine.
Category: Cafe
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I think a first date is about getting to know whether there is a spark, not an interview to find out someone's life story. Dinner (or lunch or even coffee) is nice for establishing if that connection exists. I think 2nd or 3rd dates are more for doing more adventurous stuff like seeing a live show, sharing an outdoor activity like hiking or tennis, or if the woman wants to try something new and has an idea, I am all for it also.
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they r making me write something here even though I just want to continue
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I think drinks or coffee, then possibly a dinner, is the best way to meet. Let's keep it light without pressure, so we can get to know each other, then see where things go.
I'd love to go to the Getty sometime, or a nice spot in South Bay, then ride with you on a topless trip around Palos Verdes. No, the car, not you, silly.
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Any restaurant near the water like Asbury, Pier Village. A moonlight walk on the beach holding hands, embracing the moment listening to the crashing waves of the sea.
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Drinks and appetizers... Talk and get to know each other... See where it goes... Lunch could lead into dinner... :)
Category: Drinks
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To share together something new and interesting a quiet time together where we could get to know each other
Category: Sightseeing
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Unless an interesting well-flowing life-themed conversation takes place, then there will be no chemistry to build upon. My experience is that a setting of a nice and quiet coffee shop can be very conducive to attain exactly that.
Category: Cafe
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Somewhere safe for both of us, Somewhere we can leave if there is no connection
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I suppose a music venue as i have a great interest in music.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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A romantic dinner at a nice restaurant . I love Italian food , but I'd leave that open for the lady to decide . Afterwards if things are going good , maybe a drink if she prefers , or a movie . Even just a nice conversation to get to know each other ....
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I feel going out to dinner on a first date, it's an ideal place with a great atmosphere for open conversation, just plain simple talk to start the mood. Also I do like to get to know a person's native food just by trying it and getting to know her likes. I also like some good laughter. I think it's a great icebreaker, a beginning of trust between two people.
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I see a first get together as an opportunity to get to know one another to see if there is a basis to build a friendship/ romance. So, the place is not so important as is the opportunity to be together in a relatively quiet setting so we can hear each other speak.
Category: Cafe
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Dinner by candle light. Good conversation.
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Get to know one another over a lite lunch and if there is a connection take a walk on the boardwalk and than plan a next date.
Category: Lunch
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