FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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sushi and get to know each other
Category: Dinner
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Coffee / brunch , starbucks, cosi's . A little conversation, see what's going on between the ears. Make sure theres a match.
Category: Cafe
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Just getting to know one another in a casual place
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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A no-pressure meeting over a tea or coffee in a high-traffic public place puts us both at ease and lets us see if there is a chemistry that merits pursuing more.
Category: Cafe
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Open for discussion. First dates shouldn't be too formal. It doesn't take long to realize there is either a connection or there isn't.
Category: Drinks
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Make plans to either pick you up or meet if more comfortable for you . Have a nice dinner and conversation. Then maybe a movie or go dancing. Just enjoy the evening and each others company. No curfew for me. Maybe even watch the sunrise. No hurries no worries. Lots of laughs and lots of fun.
Category: Dinner
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Some place where we can sit and talk . Someplace where we can get to know each other. I like most types of food except fish . So just about any where is good for me.I am willing to try just about anything.
Category: Dinner
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I am really open. I even surprise myself. A quiet restaurant and a walk on beach is nice. I like decent movies, but its a secondary choice for a first date.
Category: Dinner
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Always will treat and even spoil a date... and minus jewelers and auto dealers, shopping with a date can be a fun gig... just realize that in some establishments, I can feel the testosterone leaving my body... (Victoria's Secret, Bath and Body Works, yatta yatta) and it kinda' smarts!!! Love a flea market or antique shop... there's a lot to learn about someone shopping at WalMart... and if we end up at the perfume stand, expect to get sprayed with somethin'. Concerts, sporting gigs, park by a river... overall, just be honest because, though I'm not really a chatty cathy... I will talk and you will laugh, and I will expect to enjoy a chance to listen. We all have a journey and I feed off what I learn from yours.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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How about an afternnon matinee of the Lion King Musical?
Category: Performing Arts
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Let's listen and dance to the blues at the St Louis Soulard area.
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Why not meet on the Landing for dinner and drinks?
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Meet me in a quiet cafe for coffee in the middle of the afternoon.
Category: Others
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We would meet at a coffee shop for coffee, or a restaurant for drinks. It should be very layed back with no expectations. Just two people getting to know each other to see if there is some kind of chemistry.
Category: Drinks
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A local coffee shop in a small town for a coffee and cinnamon roll.
Category: Drinks
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Wineries in Grafton, Listening or Dancing to good live music, pleasant conversation while gazing at the river!
Category: Drinks
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Ask me on a formal date... not to hangout or get together. He is dress to bring a bit of formality to the evening and smell divine. He picks me up for the date, opens the door to his car. We are sitting at a table in one of the best restaurant were the first date will take place. It is cosy and warm. Soft music is playing in the background. He is a complete gentleman, opens the door, pulls my chair for me to sit down, ordering my food after I've chosen it. Selects and orders the wine. We talk and get to know each other, we tease, we flirt, we laugh, we look at each other, we smile, we subtly touch each others hands, caress... he picks up the check... drives me home... we kiss as a prelude to the next date.
Category: Fancy Dining
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Want to have a romantic dinner at a fine dining restaurant or grab a quick bite and hit the dance floor? I'm open to either.
Category: Dinner
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I prefer to view a first date as just meeting a friend for a drink, it's less awkward, no expectations. That way, if there's no chemistry, we can still have a drink and enjoy meeting someone new. Everyone has an interesting story, so nothing lost. And I'm happy to pay for the drinks either way.
If there is chemistry, then I would love to take you to the premier of DIE HARD FIVE because my best friend is married to him :) and I have an invite plus-one for February 13th. No after-party this time, but I would love to take you to dinner after the viewing.
Category: Drinks
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Love to meet for a drink and see where things go.
Category: Drinks
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Dinner and drinks a chance to get to know each other
Category: Drinks
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