FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

my date idea is very simple going to a park or romantic place

Would you like to watch a movie or listen to music with candles and some wine?

There's gotta be some mystery....maybe breakfast, coffee, how about just sitting down and getting to know each other

Going out and getting to meet and know one another over a cuppa or a meal

A restaurant or park for a relaxing environment to get to know one another.

Oh gee. I don't know. I'm not a heavy dater, to be honest. I've been just flying solo by choice for some time now, working on studies and writing a book! Erm, Tea or coffee and possibly a light snack/appetizer? Or even better still, coffee/tea + DESSERT! I adore desserts. No meal is ever required to have one. (^ _ ^) Afterward, if we still wanted to hang out longer and the weather was mild, a walk around the city, perhaps. I love walking just after dark when everything's lighting up and there are the sights and sounds of people coming out for the evening, music and conversation pouring out of places. Maybe wander into a shop or two if we fancy that. I would say definitely not a heavy meal on a first date. And, although I love movies and performances, not that on a first date, either. Nothing that we'd have to sit through and appreciate quietly. I think conversation and being able to laugh together is the most important thing on a first date, to see if interest is there. Also, I do not frequent bars, and am not really a drinker. If that's a big part of a guy's usual social scene, we probably won't click. The occasional glass of wine with dinner or at home, or meeting friends in a nice restaurant lounge on occasion is something I could go for. But not anything nightly, weekly, or anything. And not involving drinking to any excess. Easily, 95% of the days in a year are alcohol-free for me!

a ride on the Seattle Big Wheel, walk along the waterfront,, dining out and having wine.. take in a ballgame ;-)

First date after meeting and taking the next step. It would help knowing what your interested in. Going out to dinner, see a play or listen to live music. ll have to complete this another time.

It's debatable but pending weather conditions, go kayaking down at the harbor then have a late lunch/early dinner somewhere overlooking the ocean so we can watch the sun set

im not sure about this as ive been out of the dating thing for over 20 years

Old fashioned as it may sound, a nice picnic under the trees in the country with no distractions would be fantastic. A great meal in a classy eatery is hard to beat too. It really depends on what I think the girl might like.

Lets take a short drive. Up through the mountains to the lake. We can bring some food for an outside picnic. I think you should choose the food. I might through in a thing or two. Since it's warm here maybe we should take a swim. Cool off a bit. Play some frisbee or something . We can wrestle around a bit. You know just playfully. Laugh scream joke just plain have fun. We've had a lot of fun I am getting tired. Why don't you go ahead and drive i'll handle the cd player. Take it easy though my V-8 SHO has some power and a great suspension. I'm glad you are enjoying it. Now its your turn to decide where we go and what we do. i just caught a second wind and I am down for ANYTHING!! Got any ideas?

A quiet, candlelight dinner where we could really get to know each other would be a great first date.

It would be between the both of us to decide

Something simple and comfortable for both, diner, drinks and maybe a ride.

Have some talk time find out what we like and have great sex

Good conversation over coffee or lunch in intimate public place.

casino pub out for dinner talk all night have sex all night whatever happens cool

A nice little coffee shop with some cozy conversation.

My first date idea is meeting for lunch or something like that.