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prxxxxxx

Tampa, FL, USA

My ideal first date would be going out to a casual dinner. So we can talk and to get to no each other. After dinner go and have coffee.
Category: Dinner
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Jaxxxxxx

Lamont, AB, CAN

My 1st date with Yu , will Start with a ( bee's wax ) Candle lite dinner , Under Palm Tree's . Our Chef will send out a platter of crabs eggs , & Bizonn , with 80 year ol' wine, all the way from Eygipt ! ( Iv Only had 11 beer ! ) I had to toast a Beautifull Lady ! Thats Yu ; - ) I tried inviting John Candy, as our Matre' D , but, he was busy ! ** Hope yu r enjoying my humor , so far ! *** The part about yu as the Beautifll lady is all real !
Category: Arts and Crafts
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RJxxxxxx

Marietta, GA, USA

I live in Marietta, GA. No chance for walking on the beach on the first date. I'd rather meet for coffee first and go from there. Going out to dinner as the initial meet has not been effective for me. Found too many women only want to get a free meal and not interested in getting to know me. Better over a cup of coffee to determine if there will be a second meeting, aka date.
Category: Arts and Crafts
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dixxxxxx

Coatesville, PA, USA

Before meeting, I would prefer to speak with person on phone a few times before making plans.
Category: Cafe
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arxxxxxx

Meridian, ID, USA

Coffee or tea at Starbucks getting to know each other
Category: Others
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vixxxxxx

Orlando, FL, USA

A nice, quiet place to dine, candlelight, mood music, to talk and get to know one another better.
Category: Dinner
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hexxxxxx

Everett, WA, USA

How about meeting someplace conducive to good communications with little interruption. The most important consideration is your comfort and safety. I'm open to any agreeable ideas. Thank you.
Category: Others
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HDxxxxxx

Colorado Springs, CO, USA

We meet at a place that we'll both like the music, and then we'll play it by ear.
Category: Drinks
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Toxxxxxx

Burlington, ON, CAN

We meet and go for a walk by the lake, have conversation over coffee or a drink and decide what to do about dinner,hopefully there will be chemistry !!!
Category: Cafe
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jixxxxxx

Westland, MI, USA

For a first date I like the idea of going to a quiet restaurant. Not only can you share a conversation and good food, but you have eye contact and you can linger over coffee.
Category: Lunch
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Loxxxxxx

Morehead City, NC, USA

I hope the first date involves the beach! I am pretty easy to please as all I need is good company, water nearby, the sun , sand followed by a great meal and lots of interesting conversations. I still have all my Harley gear so that is another option if you are game? Dancing in the moonlight is a definite YES! Oh and I can handle the flowers and the candle light so do not hesitate there!
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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TAxxxxxx

Blumenort, MB, CAN

Get together for a nice lunch at an up-scale eatery, somewhere where conversations can flow freely, get to know each other. After lunch, take a drive in the country, maybe stop in at a golf course, hit some balls, have a cold drink. Later stop in at a live music venue, enjoy some blues or folk music, then go to a small restaurant for an intimate dinner, meal and drinks, later stop in at my place for a nightcap, music, conversation.
Category: Cafe
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joxxxxxx

Memphis, TN, USA

DINNER THEN DRINKS SOMEWHERE WITH A GOOD BAND
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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Irxxxxxx

Livermore, CA, USA

somewhere quite where we can hear each other also pretty but not too fancy just comfortable.
Category: Dinner
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Prxxxxxx

Victorville, CA, USA

The first date should be in a setting where both are completely at ease. It should be at a place where others are present but they could still enjoy privacy, such as a public park, or maybe in a restaurant over coffee, where few people are present. I feel that the first date should be as informal as possible, that the two should allow each other to relax and be themselves. The situation will be tense enough at the beginning to have to worry about formalities. Each will be meeting someone who just might be their future life partner, and the situation should be treated as a relaxing, enjoyable, yet sacred event.
Category: Lunch
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elxxxxxx

New York, NY, USA

I like the idea of meeting for tea or coffee!
Category: Cafe
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blxxxxxx

Olathe, KS, USA

i would like to meet for coffee or maybe a nice walk in the parkor maybe a picknick
Category: Walking or Hiking
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thxxxxxx

Topanga, CA, USA

Coffee? Tea? Makers Mark? Glass of wine? Beer? Milkshake? Fooooood? Theatre? Film?
Category: Others
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joxxxxxx

San Jose, CA, USA

How about a coffee in Los Gatos, or a glass of wine at Santana?
Category: Cafe
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bexxxxxx

Metairie, LA, USA

Aplace where we can talk and get to know more about each other, such as a coffee shop or here in New Orleans Coffee and Beignets! Nothing expensive. Just a quiet place to meet and talk to see if we both want to pursue a greater friendship.
Category: Cafe
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