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Swxxxxxx

Hindman, KY, USA

Talk and get to know one another...to see if there will be that next date....
Category: Lunch
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Arxxxxxx

LND, GBR

Ride out to a country pub for a romantic dinner.
Category: Dinner
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usxxxxxx

North Charleston, SC, USA

Would you like to have a candle light dinner with me at a fine resturant with soft music, good food, hot bread and good wine and then a moon lit stroll on the beach with me or we could go to my place or yours and watch a movie or listen to music together. Maybe slow dance to a beautiful song with my arms around you, cheek to cheek, maybe I steal a gentle kiss, the night is still young.
Category: Culinary Adventures
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coxxxxxx

Greenville, TX, USA

Texas State Fair. Dallas Arboretum. Fort Worth Exchange Street.
Category: Others
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Kaxxxxxx

Newport News, VA, USA

Let's go to a restaurant or bar and get to know each other or bowling alley.
Category: Playing Sports / Games
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Jaxxxxxx

NA, GBR

A relaxed meeting in a wine bar or even a cup of coffee, then walk and talk to see if there is a ping-ping. A kiss goodnight then it will be one way or another if we meet again x
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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muxxxxxx

Crystal Springs, MS, USA

Meet at a restaurant for conversation, food or just an ice tea.
Category: Cafe
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ARxxxxxx

Johannesburg, GT, ZAF

IN A PUBLIC PLACE, A DECENT AND TRENDY RESTAURANT IN A DECENT AREA.PREFABLY A SLIGHTLY QUIT PLACE WHERE WE CAN HERE EACH OTHER SPEAK. A CANDLE LIT AND ROMANTIC SETTING WOULD BE PERFECT FOR OUR FIRST DATE.
Category: Dinner
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loxxxxxx

MAN, GBR

Will last for and hour talking to each other
Category: Cafe
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lexxxxxx

Lynn, MA, USA

Alright I am looking for some very unique date ideas. The kind of dates that make a mam go "Wow this woman is really fun/creative/neat/confident/etc." I am writing a short film about a mid-twenties woman who is very charming and takes her man she just met on a few dates. That is the main reason for this question, but obviously, being a single parent myself I may put them to use for my own life as well ;-) Here are the kind of date ideas I have so far, and the kind of ideas I'm looking for: -Showing up at her house with a paper and a dart, opening the paper to the 'movies' section, hanging it on a tree and having the man throw the dart at it, and what ever movie it lands on we go see, even if it started five minutes ago, or two hours from now. -Going to a strawberry/blueberry/blackberry/etc. farm, seeing who can pick the most berries, then taking them home and practicing putting them in recipes we found beforehand. -Hunting for four-leaf clovers like little kids again. -Visiting an art museum, then going back home and trying to create our own art based on ideas we got from the museum. -(If raining) pushing all the furniture to the walls in the living room and having an indoor picnic in the middle of the living room, full with after-dinner movie, wine and all. -Showing up to pick her up for a date in some random vehicle (like a limo or really really nice rental car) just to make the date a little more adventurous. -Taking your her birthday, and your birthday, and placing them in the last digits of the longitude/latitude of a car GPS, driving to where ever it takes you, and having a picnic there, or to look at the stars. Those are a few ideas so far, but most of them feel like "second date" ideas. I'm looking for some more unique, fun, adventurous/spontaneous ideas, but mainly something just as charming but 'first date' appropriate.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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caxxxxxx

Waterville, ME, USA

We could have a quick coffee or drinks, or a 3 course meal at an upscale restaurant.
Category: Culinary Adventures
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bwxxxxxx

Jacksonville, FL, USA

Maybe just to meet casual somewhere, Sit and talk and get to know each other better.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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texxxxxx

HAM, GBR

Meet up and see a Live Rock 'n' Roll band and jive the night away. To some great music and have a few drinks so we can get to know each other.
Category: Dancing
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coxxxxxx

Surprise, AZ, USA

Normal dinner, lunch, go do something, see where it goes from there.. Whatever you would like to do is OK with me.....
Category: Dinner
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jaxxxxxx

Houston, TX, USA

I have no dating expectations except to have nice meal together, take a walk and hope there is some sort of chemistry. We'll see if anything else develops.
Category: Dinner
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Buxxxxxx

Greenwich, CT, USA

Something we both agree on - quiet enough to chat.
Category: Dinner
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abxxxxxx

Herndon, VA, USA

a mix of fun and a chance to talk to see if we are compatible - maybe a college or pro bball gam, or a play or museum visit - followed by lunch or dinner
Category: Sporting Events
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Bixxxxxx

Santa Monica, CA, USA

Maybe lunch or dinner on the boardwalk,,then shop around!
Category: Dinner
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RDxxxxxx

Los Gatos, CA, USA

To me it doesn't matter "where" the first date takes place. It is all about the chemistry between the two people on it.
Category: Others
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Maxxxxxx

Wildersville, TN, USA

On a first date I would be happy to go out to a movie and dinner or dancing, be polite and understanding, protect my date and kiss her on the cheek at the end of the evening and get her home safely.
Category: Fancy Dining
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