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crxxxxxx

Champaign, IL, USA

I love going to parks, forest preserves, anything in nature, museums, art gallerys, etc. Test the waters, talk, touch, kiss to guage chemistry.
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Thxxxxxx

IRL

Actually for a first date I'd let the lady choose. So what I'd do is this. I'd roll a dice! Now, if it lands on 1 we do for a coffee. 2 we go for a drink. 3 we go for a bite to eat. 4 we go to the zoo. 5 we go a museum and if the dice lands on 6 we go to a show. How's that for a range of first date options? And the best thing is if things work out on the first date we can roll the dice again for the second date!
Category: Cafe
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roxxxxxx

CAM, GBR

Movie. Dinner. Walk along the beach. Romantic breaks away
Category: The Movies
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grxxxxxx

Waltham, MA, USA

Sounds like a perfect excuse to try out a nice restaurant in the city or meet up at a nice bar for a drink and dancing
Category: Fancy Dining
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Coxxxxxx

Cape Town, WC, ZAF

I love sushi, wine and good conversation.
Category: Dinner
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paxxxxxx

Cleveland, OH, USA

Usually something simple is best for the first time meeting in public or whatever may be more comfortable for her . Perhaps something active? Would you like to try windsurfing or tennis? Almost anything would be easy enough for me. It depends on you!
Category: Dancing
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joxxxxxx

San Francisco, CA, USA

First date should be a simple and casual. We meet at a café, talk and get to know each other. If we click, and are tired of sitting, we go for a walk (ideally along a water front – because I love water fronts) and talk some more. If we dont click, then we part ways. This avoids the awkwardness of a long dinner date if one does not like the other. If for example you dont like my medium sized nose, you can just say "Hello" and "Goodbye" and walk away. (I'm joking, that would be uncivil. At least sit for a few and overcome the awkwardness of meeting a stranger before forming judgement and saying farewell.)
Category: Cafe
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olxxxxxx

DBY, GBR

to see what appends when we meet then it would be up to you what appends next
Category: Walking or Hiking
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ejxxxxxx

Katy, TX, USA

I realize at first, it starts out as a meeting/interview, but hoping for a personal relationship. Would like to Meet for drinks and conversation, in seperate vehicles, in case there is a personal or work urgency...
Category: Drinks
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Esxxxxxx

Des Moines, IA, USA

Something short in a public place.
Category: Cafe
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stxxxxxx

Kennedy, NY, USA

Going out for diner or a movie or even going out for a walk in the park to talk and get to know each ather.
Category: Dinner
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BCxxxxxx

Toronto, ON, CAN

Meet for a coffee and maybe some pie
Category: Cafe
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shxxxxxx

ZAF

Go n have nyc meal, then chat n get to know each other
Category: Lunch
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anxxxxxx

DUR, GBR

Meet for a chat., drink/meal see if we click
Category: Cafe
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Fixxxxxx

Rancho Cucamonga, CA, USA

Dinner and a show in a city with an exciting night life.... the anticipation of that first kiss mounting over the course of the evening.
Category: Fancy Dining
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caxxxxxx

Plano, TX, USA

Coffee, tea, I like dinner or lunch, perhaps on second date maybe you the movies.
Category: Cafe
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stxxxxxx

Stilwell, OK, USA

meet for dinner or drinks maybe go watch a movie what ever she wants to do im easy to get along with
Category: Dinner
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ghxxxxxx

IND

watching a romance movie and then a cozy dinner
Category: The Movies
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Saxxxxxx

University Park, PA, USA

My first date idea.... I think of romance, candles, champagne, chocolate covered strawberries.... something like that.
Category: Others
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pmxxxxxx

Spring, TX, USA

I would like to do something where we can talk and get to know each other..
Category: Cafe
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