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Anxxxxxx

DEV, GBR

Lunch followed by a walk in the countryside or by the sea
Category: Lunch
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TMxxxxxx

Los Angeles, CA, USA

Nothing is better for getting to know someone than a picnic. It's casual, creative, and private.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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frxxxxxx

Van Nuys, CA, USA

what you feel comfortable with .... is good for me
Category: Museums and Galleries
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hoxxxxxx

Fort Worth, TX, USA

my ideal first date would be a picnic on the beach and a long walk hand in hand afterwards then come home and cuddle while getting to know more about each othere . the picnic could also be in the back yard or a nice garden.
Category: Dinner
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Foxxxxxx

LAN, GBR

Tea or coffee or a beer kind of thing to see if we click
Category: Drinks
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Saxxxxxx

Lake Mary, FL, USA

It's not so much the what but the who. I'm flexible. Dinner is great or maybe something more active like riding a bike trail. I get off work late during the week (11 PM) Tues thru Sat so anything on those days would have to be a late night date at some place still open. Maybe swimming at the neighborhood pool on Sunday and then a dinner and see how we hit it off.
Category: Dinner
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ncxxxxxx

Waynesville, NC, USA

I think the best first date is to share a meal and a conversation. As this is a web based dating service, I think meeting at a public restaurant chosen by the female is a safety imperative. Going to a movie or bar or other venue where you can't talk doesn't really accomplish much. Sharing a meal is a great way to talk - lunch is a short commitment of time and easy out if you want to play it safe.. But I recommend dinner as there's more time to chat and if the guy doesn't offer to pay the bill, then you know you've got a problem already!
Category: Dinner
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Raxxxxxx

Melbourne, VIC, AUS

would you like to watch a movie or listen to music with me tonight
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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waxxxxxx

VGL, GBR

We'll go to the mountains of Mid Wales to one of my bothies in the wilds i'll cook for you and we'll sit in front of a roaring fire
Category: Walking or Hiking
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sexxxxxx

Bridgeport, TX, USA

Nice dinner at a fine resturant with a night out dancing ..
Category: Dinner
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Texxxxxx

Munich, BY, DEU

A Romantic dinner for two! maybe on a rooftop restaurant, or a floating restaurant
Category: Dinner
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jexxxxxx

Irving, TX, USA

To just see you face to face and talk any where that we chose.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Joxxxxxx

Valencia, CA, USA

Something Casual, A Baseball game followed by drinks and late supper.
Category: Sporting Events
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Cixxxxxx

Whittier, CA, USA

My first date I would like something simple just to get to know each other. Maybe lunch or a drink at a nice restaurant. After breaking the ice we can talk about further plans
Category: Lunch
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Inxxxxxx

LND, GBR

Bike ride in Richmond Park OR a quick coffee in the West End
Category: Others
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Lexxxxxx

GLS, GBR

Visit to art gallery, followed by lunch in a waterside cafe.
Category: Museums and Galleries
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hixxxxxx

Plainfield, IL, USA

How about we go watch movie or go for coffee
Category: Shopping
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mtxxxxxx

Middletown, MD, USA

A quiet dinner at a historic inn , with live jazz playing in the main dining room. Yes, I have a place in mind!
Category: Dinner
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haxxxxxx

Reston, VA, USA

Meet for coffee / drink and pleasant conversation, then go for a walk / hike / dancing...if sparks fly, let it flow into romance / intimacy naturally.
Category: Dancing
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zmxxxxxx

Saint Paul, MN, USA

First date is probably going to be strange to me. I would like a first date to be for coffee some where and meet one another to see what's there. After that, we could collectively decide if that's what we chose to do.
Category: Lunch
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