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hexxxxxx

CHW, GBR

i love walks and to be together to get to know each other chat over a drink or while we walk by the river and hold hands and maybe cuddle,
Category: Drinks
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bixxxxxx

Kingston, NY, USA

First date would be nice in a quiet environment wherever is convenient.
Category: Lunch
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buxxxxxx

Gilbert, AZ, USA

i think a nice meeting at a place for happy hour would be good, we can get to see each other and have a nice conversation and see if there is any spark between us. if there is we can plan a nice date later, if not then hey it will be nice to making a new friend
Category: Drinks
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raxxxxxx

DBY, GBR

shopping for new socks and pants
Category: Drinks
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Guxxxxxx

Stafford, VA, USA

Maybe do some sightseeing to give us some time to chat and get to know one another. Or, a museum with a lunch or dinner. I mainly want to laugh and get to know you.
Category: Museums and Galleries
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mrxxxxxx

Denver, CO, USA

Simply a nice coffee house in a relaxing, scenic environment.
Category: Cafe
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drxxxxxx

LND, GBR

have a drink and get to know each other and maybe a meal.
Category: Drinks
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tkxxxxxx

Wichita, KS, USA

On the first date I think dinner is a good start. We can sit face to face and ask questions and see how we get along.
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Chxxxxxx

Corona, CA, USA

To go for a long walk on the beach or in the mountains and then a nice dinner so we can talk and get to know each other.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Stxxxxxx

DeLand, FL, USA

It doesn't matter so much where you are it's who your with, but I think starting off with dinner, drinks, taking in a comedy club, followed by some live music and dancing would be a great way to spend an evening getting to know someone new.
Category: Drinks
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Suxxxxxx

Woodstock, GA, USA

I love Italian food and a smaller more intimate place where we can talk and get to know know each other.
Category: Dinner
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Shxxxxxx

Nolensville, TN, USA

Let's talk and see ... we could just meet at a nice place to eat...or a hangout....I want to talk and see if there are any sparks...no pressure...great conversation and friendship would be nice even if that is where it goes...I have been in a band for most of my life...I am not looking for just "physical attraction" - so no cheesy, fake, insincere or whatever is a requirement.
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Dexxxxxx

Deerfield Beach, FL, USA

drinks wherever and good conversation
Category: Drinks
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Brxxxxxx

Kalamazoo, MI, USA

Let's take a spontaneous trip a few hours down the road to Chicago and enjoyed some of the greatest food that the Midwest has to offer. There is so much else to do there, I am sure that we can accommodate any of your desires.
Category: Others
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Fixxxxxx

Harlingen, TX, USA

I'm really not into the traditional dinner & movie date. How do you get to know someone watching a movie in a dark room? I would like a walk on the beach and/or a dinner on the beach. I also would like to go see an awesome local band play or go dancing at a nightclub.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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Coxxxxxx

Chicago, IL, USA

Drinks, jazz, R&B music. Goof conversation and familar interests will make a good time. I like men that are older, they like to have fun, relax and relate>
Category: Drinks
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uuxxxxxx

Charlotte, NC, USA

Meet for dinner, go somewhere we can talk and get to know each other better
Category: Dinner
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chxxxxxx

WAR, GBR

cafe, theatre , meal, I'm open...
Category: Cafe
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taxxxxxx

Decatur, AL, USA

My Idea of a good date is quite atmosphere where you can talk and get to know one another. I really love a small restaurant not a chain with great food and drink. After that if she is pleased with how the date is going we could discouss what she would like to do afterwards. Its hard to plan what to do next without getting to know her.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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boxxxxxx

HAM, GBR

A coffee or (preferably) a nice rioja somewhere you feel comfortable
Category: Drinks
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