FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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Open for alot, I'm comfortable in any situation or place and it's about sharing that energy with my person
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Dinner, good conversation, and maybe a glass of wine afterward. If you can make me laugh, tolerate my loyalty to the Chicago Bears, and hold your own in a horror movie debate, we’re off to a great start.
I especially appreciate a man who isn’t afraid to take the lead when planning a date.
Category: Dinner
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I love to talk and walk for first dates. Most of us like to show up looking like how we'd look going to a wedding. But I prefer to be comfortable as we discover one another.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Dinner and cuddles walking around holding hands and kissing. Maybe a movie. Going back to one of our places to cuddle more
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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I’d choose something that’s a local favorite cafe or diner for a first date, so we can get to know each other , if things go well maybe we go for a walk or get drinks
Category: Cafe
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I’m of the mindset that a first date should be a dinner together. I care about manners and how service-industry workers are treated, so I’d like the opportunity to see those characteristics upfront. No ONS please. We dress nicely, I pick you up or arrange a pickup for you. We meet, have a thoughtful conversation without staring into a phone all night. After a wonderful meal, we continue our conversation or end the night, depending on the vibe. No presumptions.
Category: Dinner
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The Subterranean Speakeasy
Because you're explicitly keeping things physical and light, avoid bright daytime dates. A dimly lit, underground speakeasy—think somewhere with the secretive vibe of Dockum downtown—sets an intimate, adult tone the second you walk in. You handle the logistics of getting the table and managing the evening, so she just has to show up, have a drink, and see if there's a spark.
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My kind of first date? We grab some good food, take a drive down some South Texas backroads with music playing, find a quiet spot under the stars, and just talk for hours. I’d rather learn somebody’s mind and laugh until our faces hurt than sit in a loud place yelling over the cro
Category: Dinner
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Start with dinner and maybe drinks. If its summer, ice cream and a walk on the beach. Sky's the limit. Batting cages, Indoor shooting range, impromptu road trip.
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If it’s in London first date has to be a walk along the south bank, exploring what’s going on in the area, popping into the NFT for a coffee, checking out the turbine hall installation in the Tate Modern, then sampling a few goodies at Borough Market, before heading for cocktails and a great meal somewhere on Bermondsey street, or across the river in Soho.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Get to know each-other over dinner and drinks. Have great conversation and a few laughs. Nothing like great food with amazing company.
Category: Dinner
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Fancy dinner with some drinks to get to know each other. Then find something fun and random like ax throwing or similar activity.
Category: Fancy Dining
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Cooking together and snacking while drinking wine and listening to music. Private and casual makes it romantic
Category: Drinks
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I’m someone who enjoys life’s simple pleasures whether it’s a quiet evening with a good book, a heartfelt conversation, or sharing a laugh. I value kindness, wisdom, and deep connections. I believe that true beauty lies in the moments we share and the stories we tell. If you appreciate thoughtful conversation and a warm heart, I think we’ll get along beautifully.
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Quiet free outing window shopping. We could walk, and talk a bit. Get to know each other, via what interests us.
Category: Errand Dating
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Walk around a park, chat, get to know each other. Head out to dinner after if it goes well. :) Hopefully a second date would be on the horizon.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Let's have an unforgettable date. Let's do something that we never did before on a date. Let's get creative. If you cannot think about something interesting to do with a person you are just meeting and you are interested to, I have a lot of ideas.
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A nice dinner, good conversation, lots of laughs, both of us wondering how the time passed so quickly.
Category: Dinner
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Lake boat stars good conversation and music. Perfect I hope you agree. I’m easy going fun to talk to and love meeting new people
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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Casual lunch at first - no pressure. I'm a big fan of sushi but I'm down for anything for lunch. There are lots of places around Beverly Hills and it's a very walkable town.
Category: Lunch
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