FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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So Many Choices...We could go Explore Lido Island in Newport Beach on E-bikes, stopping to bar hop and/ or check out the pier/ live music. Afterward we could walk on the Sand by the Ocean and go for a nightcap somewhere or We could get on a train and head South to San Diego. Once there, we would catch a Trolley and either head to Old Town or Downtown San Diego to Explore and / or have a picnic/ couple of margaritas. It's the Adventure of exploring and being spontaneous...no plans except to Experience Life ;)
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A walk along the river here in Wilmington. Think small shops, great views and a comfortable casual walk
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Just a simple lunch or dinner in a quiet place some we can have a real conversation without screaming or distractions.
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A nice walk in the fresh air, with easy conversation about expectations and a chance to get to know each other—without the distractions of a crowded restaurant or busy setting.
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A perfect first date would be somewhere quiet enough to actually talk—maybe dinner at a small, intimate restaurant, followed by a walk somewhere beautiful as the evening settles in. Nothing overly planned or formal, just enough atmosphere to make it feel special.
I’d want the kind of conversation where we both lose track of time—laughing, sharing stories, teasing each other a little, and discovering those unexpected things we have in common. Maybe we stop somewhere for dessert or a drink afterward, neither of us quite ready for the evening to end.
The best part wouldn’t really be the place. It would be that feeling of genuine chemistry—the lingering eye contact, the easy smiles, the anticipation building throughout the evening, and that quiet moment at the end when we both realize we definitely want a second date.
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We go to a live show, enjoy some drinks and the music and then go for a late night bite to eat. We head back to a hotel and enjoy each other.
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Would love to meet the right person, go out and show her The nightlife of Denver, drinks, dinner, dancing? Maybe a live show?
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Introduce me to your go to comfort food, and actually eat with me. Maybe we can work those extra calories off together, if it feels right.
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Something that gives us something to experience together rather than interviewing each other across a table. Explore a quirky neighborhood, find live music, wander a museum, try something neither of us has done before, then grab coffee or food and discover we've accidentally been talking for three hours.
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A nice, intimate dinner in a relatively quiet restaurant so we can talk and learn each other to make sure we’re a match for at least a second date.
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Grab my hand and say trust me I got something great planned....day trip to a small unique town with a history, random zip line run, hidden waterfall/beach area, or to a new restaurant you heard was amazing, rented wheelers to go back woods riding finding some mud on the way, or as easy as darling I want to go to a massage/spa day, i booked us sky diving, pack your bags we gor a 4 night stay at xxx...the possibilities are endless.
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meeting at a relaxed waterfront restaurant for a drink and dinner, followed by a walk along the water as the sun sets. Good conversation, plenty of laughter, a little flirting, and enough time to see whether the chemistry feels natural. Romantic, comfortable, and memorable without trying too hard.
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A walk at my favorite wildlife reserve. Checking out the bird activity. A good place to sit and talk out in the fresh air.
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I tell you what time to show up and where to park on the street with your engine running. As I show up dressed in black you hear alarm bells go off from the nearby bank, and I put a number of duffel bags and a full auto weapon in the back seat. I take off the balaclava and you realize it's me, I tell you to move over into the passenger seat and you readily let me drive. We drive to the coast and take a small boat to Matapalo, Costa Rica. We spend 2 weeks living on deserted beaches (assuming you have vacation time) and eat fresh, natural food daily at a local farm. And you forget to pack a bathing suit.
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I enjoy romantic walks to the dispensary!
420 friendly is a must. Can sit and talk for hours on the porch of my cabin with a beautiful lady and some good smoke.
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Go for a drink and have a bike to eat get to know each other have a nice talk see where we go from there
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I am an easy going woman. Simple, yet doesn't mean I don't enjoy the finer things in life. The Cancer in me loves the beach. No pressure...if your time, which was the most valuable gift from our date was masked as a great latte..I'll take it.
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I'm well rounded with pubs and fine dining. I do love a few pints and wings once in a while really who doesn't lol. Big fan of soaking in the hot tub especially when I'm gets dark
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A spontaneous day trip with no real agenda-pick a direction, explore a small town neither of us have been to, find a great local restaurant, wander through unique shops, and enjoy whatever conversations or adventures the day brings.
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A nice dinner where we can talk and get to know one another, followed by learning each other’s music tastes by sharing YouTube videos.
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