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Loxxxxxx

Bayonne, NJ, USA

How about we meet for lunch somewhere that you're comfortable.
Category: Lunch
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bsxxxxxx

Lincoln, NE, USA

Flowers are essential and moonlight is preferred. The first is easy but getting a woman alone under a bright moon when first you meet her does present a problem. In my experience most women aren't too trusting right away and rightly so. I often advocate a meeting first and strongly suggest that the lady should bring along a friend or family member for peace of mind. The first meeting should be at an event where the parties have the chance to part ways amiably and still enjoy their day if at first there's no spark or interest. As is evdenced by my moronic ideas I haven't given this question much thought. I believe the ideal first date varies with the participants. Personally I think that a day at the beach would be a blast! Unfortunately not everyone gets as excited about going to the beach as I do (frisbee anyone?). IDK
Category: Culinary Adventures
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Rexxxxxx

Jackson, TN, USA

After emailing and texting, I would arrange to pic my date up, go riding/sightseeing and just talk. Then go to dinner/lunch, just relax and enjoy each others company. After dinning we could go walking or go and play putt putt golf, ride go-carts, laugh and have fun.
Category: Others
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Grxxxxxx

Central Point, OR, USA

Meet for lunch and go from their.
Category: Cafe
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maxxxxxx

San Rafael, CA, USA

I love the beach, but I also love music and fine dining but not to excess.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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rexxxxxx

Middletown, RI, USA

Something simple maybe a casual bite to eat and someplace we can talk and see if we connect.
Category: Dinner
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fuxxxxxx

Los Angeles, CA, USA

My kind of first date. I will like to learn about what she likes. and i will take her to the beach to get to see her smile and tell me anything she feels like. And after that we go back home and make a lovely dish for dinner where there is no light and having the candlelight on and we have a better time together i think . is that best way of sharing good date
Category: Dinner
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joxxxxxx

Plymouth, MI, USA

get to know one another at a public place.(indoor or outdoor) walking in the park or zoo etc.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Arxxxxxx
Coffee? I know, sounds boring, but ya know, it's a nice simple start.
Category: Cafe
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Itxxxxxx

Las Vegas, NV, USA

Initial meeting for a cup of coffee, drink or a light lunch. First Date - Nice romantic candlelight dinner in Vegas, followed by a show and then hit the clubs till dawn, if you can keep up?
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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Grxxxxxx

Las Vegas, NV, USA

Something fun and simple for the first one get to know each other, meet for drinks or a walk. The second date is way easier. A restaurant with a great view and even better conversation. Or McDonalds and then play video games all night, your choice. Ok, maybe not.
Category: Drinks
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duxxxxxx

Dallas, TX, USA

First date should be in a quiet restaurant where we could talk and find out about each other. Love to go to the beach and walk as we talk.
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Mrxxxxxx

Los Angeles, CA, USA

Commune with nature. I will take her to a more natural setting for the important first date. I will find out if she likes nature, and if she can handle getting sand between her toes. We can go to a park and pack a picnic basket full of food or make dinner outside. We can go hiking, or bicycling or horseback riding and have more time to discuss and share experiences
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paxxxxxx

Alpharetta, GA, USA

First date would be in a place where there's an open line of communication.
Category: Cafe
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x1xxxxxx

CMA, GBR

possibly a trip to the lakes take in the scenery and talk
Category: Cafe
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kixxxxxx

NFK, GBR

A drink in a bar or restaurant in Norwich
Category: Drinks
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Sgxxxxxx

Metairie, LA, USA

First date should be over coffee or dinner. It takes time to get to know each other, get comfortable with each other. It takes time to peel back the layers of the onion. For me to find out your inner self. For you to get to know me. I am easy to talk to. I listen. I want you to be open and honest with me. I will be open and honest with you. For our relationship to grow and prosper, for us to take it to it's true potential, trust is critical. I know you will learn to trust me and put yourself in my hands.
Category: Others
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Luxxxxxx

Virginia Beach, VA, USA

i would like a variation of dinner-and-a-movie night...but at the same time a place that will allow time for conversation!
Category: Dinner
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roxxxxxx

Amory, MS, USA

I just wanna meet and greet,...and get to know her and look into her eyes,....because the eyes are the "windows to the soul" and I can tell a lot by looking into her eyes!
Category: Dinner
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tcxxxxxx

Milford, PA, USA

Mini golf, followed by an outdoor lunch under an umbrella on a nice sunny day.
Category: Lunch
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