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kdxxxxxx

Union, KY, USA

quant ,quiet, candle lit, soft light music,in the back ground, fragrance in the atmosphere ,elegant setting in the winter location with an open fireplace, good conversation, two people enjoying one anothers company,,,,,,,,and then???????????????
Category: Cafe
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Umxxxxxx

Chicago, IL, USA

Something simple... Watching a game (live/sportsbar) while shooting the breeze.
Category: Sporting Events
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Maxxxxxx

Charlotte, NC, USA

MY FIRST DATE I WOULD BRING THE SPECIAL LADY ROSES AND OTHER DATES AS WELL. A NICE RESTAURANT WOULD BE LOVELY WITH SOFT MUSIC PLAYING. I WOULD PERFER A BOOTH SO WE COULD REALLY GET TO KNOW EACHOTHER. THEN MAYBE WE COULD CATCH A MOVIE IF IT ISN'T TOO LATE.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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jexxxxxx

Chevy Chase, MD, USA

A quiet yet animated restaurant. Possibly dancing. Nothing over the top. Nothing that would make me uneasy.
Category: Dinner
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Brxxxxxx

Glendale, AZ, USA

Meet and Greet..... just meet for a quick drink and take it from there.
Category: Drinks
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waxxxxxx

Waldorf, MD, USA

You answered my reviewed my profile, we chatted for a while on messenger, sent a few pics, talk about our past, present, and future. We talked everyday for hours at a time on the phone, even at night. We began to establish a connection and then the first date is here before you know it. We meet at a nice relaxed lounge with music and immediately sense the chemistry. Of course we both agreed to keep it simple and relaxed so i had on the sexiest pair of jeans with an almost sheer flowing blouse. I remembered you told me you were very tall so i felt safe wearing my heels(nothing says sexy like some heels). You had on a nice crisp pair of jeans with just enough sag to stay conservative but rough around the edges. Damn, you are sexy in that shirt. I am so glad that you are not slim with just enough build for me, no offense i am a thick and curvaceous (not BBW, I know the difference) woman and the last thing i need is a thin man. Why are we carrying on like no one else is here? I cant take my eyes off of you and you the same. We laugh, eat, talk, and sip the night away. Then came the kiss, who knew so much emotion can come out in a kiss. I dont know about you but i exploded inside when i tasted your lips. That was the beginning of our journey of a life together.
Category: Dinner
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Jaxxxxxx

Wilmington, DE, USA

Dinner and a movie or a nice club not too loud...
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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Roxxxxxx

San Diego, CA, USA

Have a great dinner with wine, great food, conversation. Then head over to a bar/club for some dancing. Then, see where the evening takes us!!
Category: Dinner
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Moxxxxxx

NC, USA

My favorite first date can be a lunch or dinner, with conversation. flowers (or some gift) great guys never come empty handed. and good beverages.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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lyxxxxxx

NA, GBR

meet for a drink, for food, or a walk
Category: The Movies
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jcxxxxxx

Seattle, WA, USA

First dates can be anything as long as they are interactive and fun. i could go hiking through the mountains or walk along the sound. Dinner and drinks or whatever....No need to have a set agenda
Category: Others
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phxxxxxx

Estevan, SK, CAN

dinner and drinks at a fancy restaurant
Category: Fancy Dining
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Goxxxxxx

Pompano Beach, FL, USA

maybe dinner on the beach and then a nice walk in the sand to talk and get to know each other...
Category: Dinner
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Daxxxxxx

Arlington, TX, USA

I'd really like to play it by ear so to speak. I mean we're all different and what might be an enjoyable date for one lady might not for another. So I'm not going to give a "cookie cutter" answer here. We'll talk about it and I've always got ideas for things to do, so don't worry about that. The most important thing to me is to be able to talk and get to know each other...find out if a second date is going to happen or not.
Category: Others
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luxxxxxx

Bronxville, NY, USA

Something casual-a small restaurant or cafe would be cool
Category: Cafe
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kexxxxxx

WLN, GBR

anywhere of your choice
Category: Drinks
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bexxxxxx

Clermont, FL, USA

Maybe lunch or dinner at some place nice, or out for a few drinks (they tend to help the conversation flow). Even a nice picnic at a park. No place that's noisey, makes it hard to talk and get to know each other.
Category: Drinks
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Alxxxxxx

Indianapolis, IN, USA

Meet for drinks; bowling; dancing; museum; wine-tasting. an activity where we can talk and interact with one another. Although I love movies, I think this is a very bad idea for a first date.
Category: Others
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swxxxxxx

North Charleston, SC, USA

Whatever she loves us to do and really get to know each other
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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asxxxxxx

Madrid, MD, ESP

we can have lunch and then have a walk if need be
Category: Drinks
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