FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

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On my perfect date, he will take me somewhere that I have never been before. I love dinner and movies but that's so over done. Although I LOVE dinner, before or after wards I would like to try something new or that I have not done in a long time like the beach or museum.

something quiet, around ppl, and able to talk and also the chance to out if it is not clicking

love at first sight

Conversation

Great conversation and good chemistry would be involved in my perfect first date.

I expect maybe a kinda holding hands or a kisson the cheeck.

just to visit and get to know each other and maybe get to know the parents too

I guess my first date idea is very simple. My first date idea is just hooking up to spend some time together in a public place. It does not have to be set in stone where. Places to meet could be a food establishment, mall, bowling alley, bar, etc. Just spend some time together and walk and talk and get to know each other as much as possible. Try to get a feel for each other to see how you feel around that person.

Honey and I have been kicking around the idea of writing about our ideal first date. I had to think long and hard about this one because I’ve had a lot of first dates and a lot of them stood out. They’re all pretty different, though, and a lot of it depends on the chemistry of the two people. I’ve had plenty of first dates where we didn’t go anywhere special, but the chemistry was amazing and we had a blast. Here’s my idea of a perfect first date. It’s not really a date at all, but more like a combination pickup and instant date. This post doubles as my entry in the dadshouseblog contest. First off, I would be doing something mundane, like going to the video store in the middle of the day. It doesn’t really matter, but let’s say that’s what I was doing. As I walked into the store, a hottie would be exiting. I would open her with situational: Lance: “Hi. What video did you get?” Hottie: “Hi. I rented XYX video.” XYZ could be something cool, like a Wes Anderson film, but it doesn’t have to be. It could be a chick flick too. If the video is cool, I’d simply say that I also liked it because of XYZ reasons and go into rapport with her about film, videos, etc. If it were a chick flick, I’d tease her, then go into rapport. At this point, say about 3′ into the interaction, I’d go direct on her: Lance: “Wow, I have to tell you I think you’re really interesting and attractive.” Pause. Her: “Thanks!!” We’d chitchat for another minute and I’d get the digits. Then, I’d take a leap here and ask if she wanted to get a margarita RIGHT NOW at my favorite margarita bar. This is critical, because it’s basically a screen to see if she’s spontaneous and ballsy like me. I could wait a few days and set up a date down the road, but that wouldn’t be half as much fun. I’m attracted to spontaneity and this would be unusual and exciting. She would say yes. It would be a total movie moment…improbable, but screw it, this is my fantasy. I wouldn’t even go into the video ...

Wine and Dine :)

A nice public and quite very elegant place.

I would have to say that the perfect first date would be, going to a park and having a picinic. After the picinic, stroll around the park and get to know eachother.

I'll be expecting to meet a nice looking lady nd intelligent as well.somebody who has something doing for a living,smart and sexy as well.God bless U.

Anything from out to eat to bowling, skating, anything fun? Just a place to get to know each other better.

I am flexible to her tastes and interests, but I would take her to a nice restaurant with wine, if she prefers. It depends on what she likes, but it will be an ideal first date (no movies or McDonalds).

Meet for a cup of coffee, get to know each other a little and take it from there. Go with the flow, if no flow go our separate ways after having a nice conversation and coffee with a new person that I got to meet and hang out with for a little bit. No Worries either 2 people click or they don't, nothing can be forced to "make an attraction between 2 people---it just happens or it just won't.

A COCKTAIL OR TWO AT A NICE LOUNGE. A CASUAL LUNCH ANYWHERE.

dinner and lots of talking

My perfect first date is not something I can speak of for I am an off the beaten path kind of fellow. My (our) first date would consist of a whole lot of making it up as we go.