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Haxxxxxx

Menifee, CA, USA

nothing too exotic.... its a feeling out process so I feel it should be casual. A cup of coffee at a local cafe so if there is no chemistry we can end it at one cup wit no pressure of a long dinner.
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23xxxxxx

Waterford, NY, USA

I don't have expectations on a first date, I just want to have a good dinner, some interesting conversation, and see if this will lead to more dates.
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Sexxxxxx

Newport Beach, CA, USA

For a first date I would suggest that the two of us decide on what to eat and where. I like just about anything, Italian and Mexican are two of my favorites. I think a walk afterwards would be nice to unwind and enjoy a view perhaps a sunset on the beach together..I would keep the conversation easy at first and see how things go. Sound good?
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hexxxxxx

WLN, GBR

im looking nice honest man older than my self not to far away from linlithgow
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flxxxxxx

Toronto, ON, CAN

Lets get high and go to the top of Toronto the CN Tower, where we can have dinner and some drinks at the Revolving Restaurant. Here we can get to know each other, and the spectacular view will be a great conversation piece.
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Msxxxxxx

Fair Lawn, NJ, USA

I am expecting my man to be a gentleman on my first date. If meet you and you feel there is no physical connection, let just finish our dinner and go our seperate ways. No harm done.
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paxxxxxx

Belle Fourche, SD, USA

Lunch at a small outdoor cafe, a walk thru the park or better yet a trail in the country. Good conversation,and maybe music and dancing after a fine dinner and some wine.
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loxxxxxx

Dallas, TX, USA

Is a picnic dinner,under a tree, or by the waters edge. with candles and soft music playing in the background
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inxxxxxx

Brampton, ON, CAN

Just a relaxed dialogue
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daxxxxxx

Lancaster, PA, USA

on the seashore at an outdoor resteraunt overlooking the ocean
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crxxxxxx

Kew Gardens, NY, USA

It would be just to meet to see if there is an attraction.
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coxxxxxx

LND, GBR

my prefect first date would be, lunch with time for a walk if the weather is nice, if not then a coffee and a cake somewhere quiet enough to chat
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caxxxxxx

Riverside, CA, USA

A nice long dinner of sushi followed by live music and a few brews at the local pub.
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ndxxxxxx

Padova, Veneto, ITA

Good convesation, ambiance and the two of us being comfortable with each other. Doesn't matter where we are or what we are doing.
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Raxxxxxx

Pottsboro, TX, USA

Maybe meet for a drink or for coffee first. Dinner dates can be awkward with a stranger. It really just depends on "the vibes." First dates can go very well, and sometimes there just isn't a connection. I view the "dating" sites as more "introduction" site, because several steps have to occur before we get to the actual date. After meeting in person, if we hit it off and like each others' company, *then* the actual "dating takes place."
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rexxxxxx

Island Park, ID, USA

Hiking in the Centenial Valley with a nice picnic and a bottle of wine
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Baxxxxxx

Ventura, CA, USA

A quiet place to have dinner and get to talk.
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toxxxxxx

Guilford, CT, USA

Somewhere where she is most comfortable
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Raxxxxxx

El Dorado Hills, CA, USA

Hot rampant sex. Oh wait that goes under dreams/fantasies. How about lunch/dinner and a get to know you walk and talk.
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cixxxxxx

College Station, TX, USA

Being in a place where we are able to talk and really get to know things about each other. First meeting is always important, really have opportunity to learn things, you can't read about.
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