FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

I'm quite flexible, but would suggest a quiet, romantic restaurant, great food, and intimate conversation.

Let's meet for a drink so we can talk and figure out if there's chemistry.

i just want a sweet girl who needs some spoiling!

Coffee so we can meet, talk, get to know each other...and see if there is chemistry

Just to go out and have a good time in whatever we do.

Here is a list that we’re calling the Top 50 Reasons Why Young Women Should Date Older Men. If you’re a young attractive lady considering a guy twice your age, this list might give you the 50 reasons you need to persuade yourself into making a move to the geriatric side. 1. He knows a lot of useless stuff and makes a great partner in games like Scrabble, Trivial Pursuit and Balderdash. 2. He’s well-read. He can explain a book’s plot and storyline to you quickly and succinctly, thereby saving you the time it would take to actually read the book. It’s like having your own personal set of Cliff Notes. 3. This gives you more free time to spend his money at malls, outlet stores, and online. 4. He knows a lot about music. He can name the band that Paul McCartney played with prior to Wings. 5. You can borrow his Grecian Formula to patch any bleached sun spots in your hair. 6. The big bedroom and/or guest rooms in his house means no rent for you and eventually your friends/relatives can move in too. 7. He has some serious pension/social security money coming to him down the line. 8. If you sprain your ankle, you can use his cane. 9. He qualifies for early bird senior discounts at restaurants. 10. He’s entitled to senior bus fares. 11. He’ll open doors and pull out chairs for you. 12. If he gets too chatty, you can hide his teeth. 13. Qualifies for AARP membership privileges. 14. He’ll call to check up on you 3-5 times per day. 15. He’ll give you flowers, candy and best of all – cold, hard cash! 16. He’s into holding hands and other Public Displays of Affection (PDA’s) as opposed to today’s “no contact” rules associated with dating in 2007. 17. You won’t need to pay for AAA roadside service because he’ll pick you up whenever your car breaks down. 18. He’ll effectively replace your dad for when pops isn’t around.’ (Celebrate Father’s Day twice!) continued------

Relaxing someplace with the ocean in the back ground and being able to converste and the moment together be timeless

A great first date would start out with an afternoon at a popular public park where we could spend time getting to know each other. If we're both enjoying ourselves we could move on to a nice dinner (no fast food, at least for the first date, lol), then maybe go to karaoke (so I can show off a little and find out how brave you are ;).

a nice meal together

Meet at a coffee house or restaurant.

A drink or coffee at a nice place like Paus Bagarstuga on a sunny day.

How about a picnic on a sunny hillside, good conversation to get acquainted, followed by horseback riding.

A romantic dinner and walk along the beach or river.

. I think after talking with you and getting to know you some, you should pick out where we should go.. because I would want you to feel safe and comfortable. I would just like it to be a place where we can talk and get to know each other better.. and hopefully as things progress.. so could the dates.. What do you like?.. late night snack somewhere?.. go to a club?..picnic in the evening or and midnight? amusement parks?.. we could go to Kings Island.. Camping?.. Thrift stores.. Coldplay concert? (I'm a musician).. I've done Karaoke in most major cities, BUT I've never done a duet well ya can't ask for a better invitation!...

My standard answer would be a restaurant or bar where we can casually talk to exchange our thoughts and get to know each other better. But, I also feel that being outdoors walking in a park or along a beach or even exploring a museum or art galley together, is also a great way to get to know someone.

1st Date: Depends on the distance traveling to meet. Quiet restaurant, waterfront, parkbench, motel...lol

Coffee and conversation at a Barnes and Nobles(bookstore with a cafe inside) or a coffee shop and afterwards a romantic walk in the park.

Ice cream, or coffee depending on weather, walk along a quiet sea front, river etc

cup of coffee and talk about whatever comes to mind

Just a nice easy meeting, start with coffee at a café, and if it seems right a walk, to continue the talk. After that if the feeling is right, we will part for the night, after making plans for another meeting. Or start with coffee and then take in a local event. I favor daytime for first meetings (seems more honest to me,- and this little barbarian is much less scary in the daylight, Hee hee ha.)