FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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Baseball, Basketball, Football game, or Axe throwing, darts bowling, work out date with hot sauna after and a massage. Go karts, driving range Motorcycle riding, high rope course, Laser tag. This is not actually a description of a date, but more like suggestions.
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Maybe a nice dog walk then decide on what we do next or a relaxed coffee then diner something easy and calm
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Nice romantic dinner followed by a walk on the water then a nightcap back at the hotel. Watch you change into a classy but sexy piece of lingerie.
Category: Dinner
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Drinks at a good cocktail bar — somewhere with low lighting and no TVs. If the conversation is right, we'll move to dinner. If it's really right, we'll walk the waterfront after. I don't plan the whole night in advance — I'd rather let it build
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First date? Something simple and easy. We’ll meet somewhere public for a drink or coffee, see if we vibe, maybe grab brunch on a Sunday or take a walk when the weather’s nice. No pressure, just good conversation and real connection. If we end up laughing and holding hands, even better.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Definitely sushi or tacos. These are my go to meals when dinning out. I would absolutely love to have a partner to experience them with.
Category: Dinner
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Coffee or drinks with a walk nearby
Easy conversation, no pressure, and you can keep it short or let it flow if the vibe is right.
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Something easy and fun like mini golf and street tacos, walking around and talking. Open to anything, if you wanna rock climb or go try to eat a 80oz steak challenge I’m down.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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I’m down to clown. Coffee, bike ride, hike, or anything outside. I love to cook! Let’s eat in and watch something fun!
Category: Culinary Adventures
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We go to a lecture or opening :) hold hands then go discuss what we saw over a beautiful dinner made like art /// so philosophy + art :)
Category: Lectures and Lessons
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Depends on the women tbh. I try to get a feel for who I'm thinking about taking out and I plan the date to what I've learned about the women. I'm pretty good at making a great first impressions on picking out the date plans.
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I usually like to grab dinner so we can the conversation and figure out what we have in common.. then, take it from there to plan the next dates.
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First we would "borrow" a car from someone I've never met and take that to the nearest bank to make a withdrawal from all accounts and after winning a high stakes game of hide and seek with law enforcement we switch vehicles before we visit some luxury clothing stores that unintentionally donate to the evening attire we wear to a fine dining establishment that semi-accidentally comps our meal as we step out into a night that becomes a blur of laughter and sirens and kissing that culminates with us sitting on a park bench with your head on my shoulder as we watch the sunrise with the entire city engulfed in flames behind us feeling like the only two people in the world.
Or we could do whatever you want, your choice.
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A fun dinner, whether an elegant dinner or a dinner with a vibe and character, followed by something. A walk or trip to the theater or dancing....all on the table.
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Why spoil the surprise? Isn't it part of the fun of life is not knowing? I'd rather surprise you. It's what I do.
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I prefer something active we can do together. For example a photo hunt, bonfire in the forest, hit thrift shops and tell personal tales about items on a tight budget.
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Anything from the gun range to a mountain range, life's an adventure, tell me 3 things you haven't done and we'll check off 4 by date #2
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I enjoy simple but memorable experiences, maybe a candlelight dinner at a cozy spot, followed by a relaxing walk on the beach, sharing laughs and good conversation. I like dates that feel natural and let us connect without any pressure.
Category: Dinner
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Go for a couple drinks and get to know each other ! Then if it's nice out go walk around the city and keep chatting
Category: Drinks
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I like to fuck on the first date. I will lie and manipulate you to believe that you are something special I will tell you how lucky I am to have met you....it will all be a.lie but it sounds good!
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