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It would depend upon many things! Most likely a cafe or afteroon cocktails, a leisurely walk to talk and see how we rekate to each other. I've had a first date at a nude beach and he fucked me while making it look like he was rubbing in sun tan oil. I later became his submissive for 10 years. I had another first date for coffee and something told me to have one of my friends call me with an emergency and had to leave. He was nothing how he'd described himself, and while I was fine with him being 75 to my 44, he showed up all disheveled and unclean looking more like into his nineties. I'd be open to dating someone in his 90's, but appearance makes a world of difference.
I always try to get to know someone somewhat before a first date.
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Coffee in SF's most beautiful little-known park downtown, followed by a cocktail or dinner in its most visually stunning tower, to stimulate and lubricate while we explore each other's lives, adventures, experiences, hard-earned lessons, worldviews, philosophies, beliefs, and non-beliefs. Then an urban hike up Bernal hill, or an exploration of nature in Glen Canyon, while we continue to get to know each other.
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Looking for someone I can take out for dinner, talking, then going out for a walk so we can talk some more and get to know each other. Someone that's not shy and confident about who she is and what she looks like. Going to a museum, flea markets, antique shops
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A first date needs to be simple so we can talk and get to know each other. A simple coffee shop or dinner at a bar/restaurant with live music is perfect. The music must not be too loud so we can spend time talking.
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A nice romantic restaurant that's very quiet so we can talk and get to know each other, and before we know it the manager is asking us to leave because they're closing.
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A nice seafood restaurant and a walk afterwards. Maybe a stroll around a mall to get an idea of similar or opposing tastes.
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First date should feel electric, flirting, laughs, chemistry.....and i sparks fly, I want it ending between the sheets, not at the door.
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Dinner at a real nice Italian restaurant. Looking ahead to the third or fourth date let's pop up to New York for a quick visit and catch a Broadway show
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It could be as simple as going out for a drink and spending the evening getting to Know each other. Hopefully leading to the second date soon after
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I would like to be on a date where there would be plenty of time to get to know each other a walk a dinner something like that
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i favor the trad method of simple, direct introduction, the informality of side by side drinking at a bar, rather than seated seperated by a table at a formal dinner.
that latter makes the 'interview' aspect far too prevalent; and i find that abhorrent, sorry.
and if things go well, later, that dynamic isn't present.
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A first date can be as simple as a cup of coffee. Or could be walking the dogs at Shelby bottoms or anywhere we could talk and get to know each other a little bit. It really depends on the shared energy and interests. Wouldn't you agree?
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I would love to go to a romantic dinner followed by a leisurely walk through the Bellagio Botanical Gardens.
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I'm thinking we go out on a nice summer evening Go have a casual dinner on a rooftop bar or outdoor patio. I have a couple of cocktails or glasses of wine and then maybe go play some miniature golf or go to the batting cages or just a nice simple walk in the city lights
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Meet for a drink and if we connect we can come up with a fun plan. A dinner to get to know each other is best
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Coffee shop for a talk to see what type of person she is and to find out her goals and dreams. I love to have great conversations
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Diner at a nice restaurant hopefully filled with conversation and laughs. I would hope we could learn enough about each other to know if we can set another date or not.
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Meet for a juice and get to know each other! Casual and comfortable way to learn a little bit about each other!
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Anything by water is always my preference, on a nice moonlit night.....God thats so Carrie Bradshaw!
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Dinner is overrated for a first meet. How about the best tiramisu in town and a seat where we can people-watch and plot our next move?
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