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Flxxxxxx

Fort Wayne, IN, USA

Meh, nothing fancy! I don't want to spend any time worrying about if I should even be dressed up for or care where I am, let's grab a few sips and talk
Category: Drinks
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Lexxxxxx

Arlington, TX, USA

A great first date is a simple museum walk where you explore one or two exhibits together, talk about what catches your eye, and do a fun 'pick your favorite piece' challenge before grabbing a drink at the museum café. It keeps things light, gives you natural conversation moments, and ends smoothly with a short walk outside where you can wind down and see if the vibe is right for a second date.
Category: Museums and Galleries
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arxxxxxx

Nashville, TN, USA

Live music! Karaoke as a backup plan? Good food, great company, cocktails and great tunes! Maybe dancing, we'll see how it goes.
Category: Dinner
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Mixxxxxx

Charlotte, NC, USA

Pick a theme from an era in history and dress up accordingly. Pick a few places to go to that are fun and low key to really stand out. Cap off the evening with a fine dining experience.
Category: Others
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juxxxxxx

Alicante, ESP

Elige un sitio que te guste y yo te invito. Ok? Así mientras comemos algo en un sitio tranquilo pues nos vamos contando ....
Category: Dinner
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Buxxxxxx

Rocky River, OH, USA

Have a few drinks to loosen up since first dates are always awkward. Learn more about each other. We can talk on here all we want but i feel until we actually meet in person, how will we ever know?
Category: Drinks
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mnxxxxxx

Rancho Cucamonga, CA, USA

First dates should be light-hearted and easygoing. We can start with drinks and appetizers at a bar to gauge the flow of the conversation and the overall vibe. If things go well, we can decide where to go next from there.
Category: Drinks
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jexxxxxx

Cameron, WV, USA

Driving around on a backroad listening to music laughing and telling stories then get some food and go to a haunted house
Category: Sightseeing
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Bexxxxxx

Arbroath, ANS, GBR

Nice restaurant Candlelight dinner we can talk get to know better. I like when the men put effort because I can see we really want to know me .
Category: Dinner
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jexxxxxx

Livonia, MI, USA

Anything you would like to do, I smoke weed... well... mostly vape so hope you're into that. The Pictures on here are taken at proud lake recreation area. I hike there just about every monday
Category: Walking or Hiking
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anxxxxxx

Grand Rapids, MI, USA

My ideal first date is how I like all of my dates. A few drinks, maybe some food, doing something competitive like shooting pool, batting cages, top golf... candlelit dinners have their place, but I like fun!
Category: Drinks
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Ruxxxxxx

Houston, TX, USA

Live local venues for music and dancing, go to a local pub and shoot pool, or just hang anywhere really, as long as we both enjoy it.
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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joxxxxxx

Grand Rapids, MI, USA

A walk in the park, a bike/walking/nature trail, a festival, an event, mall or even just through the neighbood.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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rixxxxxx

Crisfield, MD, USA

I think it'd be amazing to go for dinner and then a nice walk on the beach. Possibly catch a movie as well
Category: Dinner
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roxxxxxx

Hemet, CA, USA

Olive garden and those fun games at the tables they have. A real conversation with some depth at the end and if it hits off right, then off to a classy hotel if you want. I would think that's more like 3rd date though but you get the idea.
Category: Dinner
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chxxxxxx

Miguel Hidalgo, CMX, MEX

Una buena cena con muy buena conversación de viajes, política y punto de vida y claro con un buen cóctel.
Category: Dinner
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Stxxxxxx

Florence, KY, USA

I'm guessing a home made dinner would be frowned upon for a first date. That being said, packing up a picnic and going to a scenic, public area would be our best bet!
Category: Culinary Adventures
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doxxxxxx

Melvindale, MI, USA

Date one - Something fun. Down to earth. High speed go carts and a rage room. Followed by dinner at Texas roadhouse or olive garden. Maybe a few beers. Then probably go downtown to the river walk or something... get ice cream and a latte Date two - If first date was a success, on our second date I will wine and dine the fuck outta you!!! Well go to one of my favorite spots. Of course, the best part will be walking into the dining room (15 minutes late for our reservation)...me the handsome older guy with my super sexy special little thing on my arm... cocktails and a nightcap. Classy, classic date night. Good food, good drinks and good conversation Date 3 - I'll send you some money so you can go get something new to wear (whatever you'd like, literally any attire ...)and maybe get your nails done or fresh highlights? while you're out I'll be preparing dinner for us. This is a special date, not because I bought you things, but because I'm sharing one of my favorite hobbies with you! I love to cook... and I'm petty good at it. Keep your schedule clear the day following our third date. Assuming we hit it off to this point, I'll be hoping for extra innings... maybe we'll talk all night and really get to know one another. And maybe after talking all night...
Category: Others
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Ouxxxxxx

Fairborn, OH, USA

Find a classy restaurant, lots of talking, building that attraction. Followed by a social activity like axe throwing, mini golf, or a sport. Then get some cocktails.
Category: Fancy Dining
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Shxxxxxx

Leon Valley, TX, USA

Let's get coffee first. Then go bowling. If everything feels right, we can go back to one of our places to cuddle up and have great conversation or watch something together. Bonus points for falling asleep with each other.
Category: Cafe
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