FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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I would love to find a nice dinner cruise with good music and great atmoshere. If in St. Augustine its always nice to explore the historic area.
However, I am open to many ideas for a first date. This is just one lol.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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For our first date/meeting I would like to keep things simple. Coffee or tea and good conversation to see if we click.
Category: Cafe
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An ideal first date would be a nice lunch and conversation, ideally at a nice location maybe outdoor seating, If lunch goes well a nice walk followed by coffee and late dessert.
Category: Lunch
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Something fun and memorable for the both of us. Could be something simple , could be a road trip to the beach
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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Who knows. It depends on how the connection in conversation goes. After all impressions are why we are here.
Category: Drinks
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First we walk & talk around old down town, next check out the local eateries downtown then to the show & finish at a local coffee house like C.C's or P.J.'s. it would be a date to get to know each other. Or we can just play it by ear.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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Just good pasta and two glasses of red, a booth in the back, no distractions. I don't like loud first dates. Let's keep it to whispers and garlic bread.
Category: Dinner
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Let me cook for you! Depending on the time of year in front of a warm fire or under the stars on the deck, and always with some great music and drinks.
Category: Dinner
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Share a bottle of wine in a cosy pub or bar, settling in for relaxed conversation and easy laughter as we chat and genuinely get to know each other.
Category: Drinks
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A walk in the park with a cup of coffee or cocoa…a chance to talk freely in a lovely outdoor setting.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Appetizers a beer or a coke and spend an hour getting to know each other, and decide if we want to take it to second date
Category: Lunch
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Somewhere where we both feel comfortable and safe. I would want to have a few phone conversations first, to see if we even have chemistry. I'm not here to waste time.
Category: Dinner
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Sounds strange, but you can learn a lot about someone when you go shopping with her. What does that dopamine do when retail is the environment? Does the person get excited (loves it), or does the person kind of ignore the shops? Is the attention on us, her, me, or the materials? Favorite color? General style preferences? Attitude towards people? And it is very public. So, yeah, shopping. For a first date. Why not?
Category: Shopping
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A nice meal at your favourite food restaurant followed by a relaxing walk or drinks in a chilled out bar .
Category: Dinner
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First date plans are simple: coffee and conversation. No pressure, no loud bars—just seeing if we can laugh, talk easily, and forget to check the time. I’m not a drinker, so coffee is my love language.
If we click, we’ll know. If we don’t, at least the caffeine did its job. Either way, low effort, good vibes, and zero awkward expectations.
Category: Cafe
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Un bon diner sur Paris et une jolie promenade le long de la Seine et le tour de quelques monuments sur notre route, après les idées viendrons d'elle même.
Category: Dinner
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A first date should be simple and intentional. Somewhere relaxed where we can talk, share a drink, and see if the connection is real. No pressure, no distractions—just good conversation, presence, and chemistry. If it flows, we extend it naturally. If not, we both leave having enjoyed the moment.
Category: Drinks
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If you play tennis I would love to meet you at tennis court
Or in my favourite city Roma
But I also like surprises so I might you to plan everything
Category: Others
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First dates can be anywhere - I'm just partial to the Seattle area since that's where I was born. They should be light, casual. It’s a time to get to know each other better and see if there's chemistry.
Category: Cafe
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Take turns ordering our favorite cocktails for each other at a speakeasy style bar, with low and warm light, cool music and a fun vibe.
Category: Drinks
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