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Caxxxxxx

Sandpoint, ID, USA

Dinner or something where we can talk privately and get to really know each other. I prefer a relaxed environment where neither of us has to try to impress the other.
Category: Dinner
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ksxxxxxx

Stafford, CT, USA

Doing some kind of activities, axe throwing, bowling, shooting pool, swinging in a playground, campfire
Category: Playing Sports / Games
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coxxxxxx

Eugene, OR, USA

Go out for a nice dinner,lunch or mabe just grab a coffee. Let's see where our lives takes us. Would like to go to church.
Category: Lunch
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edxxxxxx

St Louis, MO, USA

Dinner , drinks ,walk and talk spend some time with her see what her goals in life are let her know what my goals in life are really get to know each other
Category: Dinner
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MTxxxxxx

Big Sky, MT, USA

As the sun sets over the majestic mountains to the west of the valley we enter the perfectly lit dining area of my favorite restaurant. We enjoy an amazing meal with laughter and heartfelt conversation realizing how much we have in common. After desert we take walk along the art galleries see the works of the local artists capturing the beauty of the animals and scenery around us.
Category: Fancy Dining
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FLxxxxxx

St. Petersburg, FL, USA

Are you a spunky spitfire that'll keep me on my toes? Keep reading! I'm not a quiet reserved conservative guy; the woman for me is not plain Jane. She doesn't act her age, she struts her stuff shaking what her momma gave her on the dance floor. She's a bit wild crazy and even kinky. Yes,I went there! If you laughed read on. The woman of my dreams is fun, adventurous, and playful. She's happy, positive, vibrant with thick skin, sense of humor, and great sarcasm; a smile that lights up a room and a mischievous twinkle in her eyes. Not a high maintenance diva girl; flip flops and jeans are fine! She's healthy, energetic - and likes food! No carrot pushers or daily dieters worrying about a pound. Confident is sexy; a string bean is not. I enjoy tasteful tats and piercings. Open minded? Lets enjoy the lifestyle together. While being retired I have lots of free time and energy; The kids are out on their own the only time I slow up is at the beach with my feet in the sand and a beer in hand. Still reading? Yay! This isn't a booty call! I actually am looking for the love of my life. Someone to "settle down" with. If you’re behind a wall from previous relationships and have the attitude that you don’t need to be in one then maybe you are not ready so count me out. It’s cool to want alone time but you should want to be with your other half as much as you can. Be my partner-in-crime let’s travel. if you are enjoying the profile send me a message. i do like a forward kind of girl! If you are tied down to your pets that may be a problem? I am not into having countless messages back and forth. If we are both interested let's meet for a drink and see if there is any chemistry :) I am looking for my best friend who thinks about us all the time, and never has a doubt that she's the last thought on my mind as we drift off to sleep.
Category: Drinks
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Maxxxxxx

Worcester, WOR, GBR

Grimsby Fish Market, 2:36 am, in the middle of winter, sharing a single bag of chips and a can of flat Carlsberg.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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Tuxxxxxx

Racine, WI, USA

Casual dinner outdoors on a warm summer evening or near a fireplace on a snowy night. I'm not a formal guy but do have a suit and tie for those special occasions.
Category: Dinner
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joxxxxxx

Ann Arbor, MI, USA

Casual coffee, ice cream or lunch to get acquainted, see if we find a chemistry and decide on what to do next, or excitedly plan our next encounter or gracefully part as friends.
Category: Cafe
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jaxxxxxx

New Hyde Park, NY, USA

I'd love to start with something cozy, say a good coffee shop or a really nice pub where we can talk and absorb each other on first face. If it's got a great vibe, that would be perfect for getting to know each other without any rush. There are no guarantees that a given place will provide such vibe but I’m willing to take a risk and explore a new place and see what we both enjoy. It's a simple way to connect, talking about something as everyday as our taste in drinks. After that, if the weather's nice, I'd suggest we take a walk in a nearby park or garden. It's a laid-back way to keep the conversation going, enjoying the scenery and each other's company. There's something about nature that just makes talking easier, more real. I'll share some stories from my adventures, maybe a funny moment from my motorcycle rides, or talk about the poetry that comes to me when I least expect it. I'm curious about you too, wanting to hear about what lights you up, your passions, or even what you find beautiful in the world. The idea is to keep it genuine, see if there's that spark, that connection. Maybe we'll find moments where we feel that vibe closeness where we share a laugh over something silly. I'm looking for that warmth, that potential for affection, but all in a way that feels right, natural. Whether this turns into something short and sweet or has the legs for something longer, I'm open to see where it goes.
Category: Cafe
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Rtxxxxxx

Leland, NC, USA

We start with brunch and afterwards we find a great place to take a walk or somewhere to hang out and talk.
Category: Brunch
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Sixxxxxx

Bradenton, FL, USA

Some place in public and a comfortable surrounding. Not overly loud so we can focus on each other and get to know one another.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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daxxxxxx

Federal Way, WA, USA

Man in America are So Cheap They just want to walk in the Park somewhere So they didn't have to buy Coffee for 1st Date.. But Expecting Hookups without the Treditional Date ~ That case Bye Bye ~ !!! Nowadays Men are Demending 50/50 ~ Married Woman Working Same much as her Husband and Plus Cooking and House Working and Raising his Off Springs.. That is NOT Fair Game.. That's Not 50/50.. That's 90/10...Women Working 5 times more than Men... If Ur Woman is Working too then U need to Help Cooking and House cleaning and laundry and Raising children 50/50 Too Don't be a Grown up kid in the household.. Clean after Urself and Helps Ur Woman... I have been Single for 14 years Cuz I don't dealing with ******* I am Super independent Woman but I also don't dealing with Poor manners If I am the one that who invited my friend then I always Treat her lunch or dinner 100% .. Man Who wants to meet Me in Real life for 1st Date but He demands Dutch pay ??? Bye Bye.. It just Coffee Not Steak dinners.. Man that drink few Alcoholic with Meal and Demending 50/50 ?? I don't even drink Alcohol.. My Meal was Under 20 and Ur Meal was 50 included Ur Alcoholic... Bye Bye ~ All of this happened in My 1st Date in Past and I blocked them Allllllllll.
Category: Cafe
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mixxxxxx

Milwaukee, WI, USA

Lunch or dinner somewhere casual (I'll buy), wherever you like, so we can chat and get to know each other. Meeting and chatting in person is the only way to find out if there is mutual attraction and chemistry.
Category: Lunch
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Kcxxxxxx

Liberty, MO, USA

Just a get to know each other meeting, No point in us wasting time if there is zero chemistry. Things can progress rapidly if all goes well.
Category: Lunch
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JExxxxxx

Roseville, MI, USA

Depending on the weather outside. Dinner and drinks. Bbq and fire anything with the right lady, Clean, quiet, and drama free.
Category: Dinner
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Joxxxxxx

Anderson, CA, USA

Just have a fun time and get to know each other. Somewhere quiet, maybe a glass of wine, or meet for coffee.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Toxxxxxx

Saint Augustine, FL, USA

Brunch at a restaurant downtown St Augustine Florida, a walk on the beach holding hands. Talking and getting to know one another.
Category: Brunch
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Anxxxxxx

Nashville, TN, USA

I like an old fashioned dinner and a movie.i kind to like to take it slow bit watch out when the sparks fly
Category: The Movies
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Stxxxxxx

Seattle, WA, USA

I would serve great food, give a foot massage, massage her temples, give a surprise gift & give her a love letter.
Category: Culinary Adventures
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