FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

I would luv and meet in a quiet place to talk and get to kno eachothet

A scenic flight over the Grand Canyon in my airplane.

Let us meet for coffee or a drink down by a park and stroll and talk then go from there.

Coffee. Conversation. Motorcycle.

Our first date will be mutual but I hope it is if its nice weather it will be outside

Any setting that you would feel safe in. But lunch then a walk on a waterfront sounds nice....

A number of ideas come to mind, Depending on the time of day. Any thing, from Coffee and conversation, through brunch to Drinks on a patio, where we can talk, and have something to eat. and many other ideas. I am open, as well as able to pick out something on the spot.

Meet some where we agree to and see what happen and going from there

My first date would be to meet at a public place for a soda or coffee where we can get to know each other and determine if we want to pursue a relationship.

Don’t' get too heavy. It's not a job interview.

Coffee, lunch. Let's see where that goes.

Since we should somewhat know each other already via the emails, texts, calls we’ve already exchanged and had, no reason for our first meeting not to be low pressure, casual, relaxed and low budget. We’d go, obviously, to a public place where you’d feel comfortable probably, I guess, in the afternoon, not evening. A place where we could talk, check out each other’s vibes, feel if and how our energies interact, mix and/or connect. It really doesn’t matter where specifically. The romance is in the moment. At a park, coffee, walk, etc. No restaurants or bars, I don’t think. If we feel it, stay out longer if we want and take it from there. If we, one or the other doesn’t, just call it early. At least we tried. My anticipation for our date would be great. I’d be excited and looking forward to it. Prepare to make sure I am at my best, and put my best self forward. Be relaxed, calm. Low key, no pressure, no stress. Expecting everything, being totally optimistic it will be monumental. While, at the same time, expecting nothing. Realizing the spark may just not be there. So exciting, breathlessness, when we first actually see each other. Hopefully, each of us will look/seem as good, if not better than the mental, emotional pictures we have probably already created. If not, oh well, let’s contain any disappointment and try to be open to make this for whatever it may be as positive experience as possible, even if we decide to bag it early. And then move on, hope springing eternal.

Dinner drinks and a moive or go to the beach

Would love to go for a coffee and a chat then maybe a walk and see where we go from there

Our first date we can talk about where our first date takes place if we make a date.

To meet for coffee or just meet at the park and bring our dogs along and get to know each other.

We'd go sailing in the afternoon and come back after sunset

Stay at home and get to know each other Better. Can't do that with a lot of noise and distractions.

Going out to eat and maby a movie and just getting to know each other

To go out to dinner and a good movie then some time stay at home