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Mixxxxxx
I love beach walks and coffee dates by the seaside, I live close to Southend on sea so it's very convenient for me. I appreciate guys who will make the effort to come and see me and take my out on special dates I'll love xx
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shxxxxxx
A setting where a conversation can happen. Be it at a coffee shop or small tavern with a juke box, music would be involved or we can sign up to serve at a soup kitchen, a clothing drive or other local initiative to make a difference in our community and see how hot my honey looks when helping others.
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Elxxxxxx
As a gentlemen, I would ask you first on the type of first date you would like. If you are shy, we can decide this together. I imagine we would first laugh about turning to the age match website to find our match and see where our conversation goes from there.
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esxxxxxx
Hello, nice to meet you, I hope you can take a moment and read my profile. You may find a good friend and hopefully a good lover and companion. I think I should start with the main course and let them know my preferences. I'm a fan of eroticism, whether in novels, short stories, audio books or art. I live my sexual freedom with joy and I am therefore looking for a partner who can have pleasant experiences with me and try one or more new ones. I would like to find true love. But I also want to have great adventures. I love my body but I know many want a slim body so don't worry I'm already dieting and exercising to be fit for health and beauty. I am very kind, loving, playful and kind, so I recommend you to get to know me. I am studying a profession (accounting) in a new virtual modality. We can plan and spend days together. I previously studied philosophy at university so there will never be a shortage of topics to talk about. I'm also a fan of theatre, drama and comedy so we can laugh a lot together. Musically, I like anything as long as the melody or the lyrics appeal to me. I love everything to do with animals, as a child I would have loved to be a veterinarian. As a teenager I studied the viola in an orchestra, I didn't develop a great talent, but it was and is a hobby that I enjoy.
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stxxxxxx
I usually do coffee/ tea for a first date. This is just so we get to know each other. I call it a brain filter date. See if we both are compatible and then we may move forward based on if you are the ideal man that God has for me.
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juxxxxxx
A simple meet for coffee or brunch. Have a talk with each other. See if we can see this going in a good direction. Get past the first step in an open area. If neither of us is interested then we part ways, no harm no foul.
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Ilxxxxxx
I think going to grab a cup of coffee would be an ideal first date/meeting because it's innocent and so mundane that there would literally be nothing to stress about. We would be in a quaint, quiet little coffee shop just sitting back sipping our coffee and just making small talk and getting to know each other better. After the coffee we can take a little walk around the area and enjoy our surroundings.
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thxxxxxx
A sweet cup of coffee and a good conversation to get things started. Can follow it up with a cozy walk in Madison Square Park followed by a nice dinner if things go well. The follow-up plan depends on how the vibe sets in during the coffee shop...
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muxxxxxx
I think a first meeting - call it a pre-date, unless you've really gotten to know each other beforehand - is great to do in the bookstore cafe or a coffee shop in general. If the weather is nice sitting outside and just getting to know one another in a safe, neutral environment is nice. If you've already gotten to know one another well over text/voice, especially in an intimate way, then I say just go for it and meet somewhere in a hotel and live life :) You can always go out to dinner, have drinks, go on a walk...whatever you'd do on a normal date...but you know in the back of your mind that the bed is waiting. Good times :) This of course assumes everything clicks and everyone is comfy with it all, but when it happens it's a wonderful thing.
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jkxxxxxx
Everything its better and easier after the coffee and if im wrong you can show me you're way to make it more special 🤭..................................................................................
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urxxxxxx

Austin, TX, USA

We meet for coffee/tea at the Black Rock Coffee cafe and chat about our lives dreams and ideal arrangement! This cafe is near so many good walking trails too! Afterwards, if we are feeling each other maybe we can take a stroll and get to know each other better.
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ARxxxxxx

Atizapan, MEX, MEX

Divertido, muchas platicas de cualquier tema y me gustan los temas de viajes y lugares o experiencias de vida. Las diferentes opiniones o puntos de vista de cosas cotidianas, escuela, planes a futuro etc.
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puxxxxxx

Bonaire, GA, USA

We can do the traditional "dinner and a movie", go out for coffee or lattes, or even a drink or two. Maybe an activity like pool or mini golf. I'm pretty open for first date ideas. , I like to use the first date as a way to talk, and see if there's enough of a spark for a second.
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adxxxxxx

Vantaa, Uusimaa, FIN

I like to call myself kind of an expert on different coffees, so why don't you treat us both with your favourite kind of coffee and we'll talk about life and anything we could ever think of. I also bet you can't make me laugh.
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rixxxxxx
For a first date it's best to keep it simple. The first date should be a time to grab coffee, verify both parties look like their photos (yes plenty of u men upload photos from a decade ago and I don't appreciate that at all please do not waste my time), and see if we can meet each other's wishes and needs in a connection. After coffee if we hit it off we can make plans for a more in depth date 💚
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Pexxxxxx

Goodyear, AZ, USA

Simple meet. Easy conversation. A beverage &/or dessert, yogurt, ice cream. Learn about each other's likes, deal breakers, and boundaries. We will mutually decide at this time if we want to meet again for a real date. Please don't invite yourself to my place at the first meet. I want to know where & how you live too before moving forward.
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Saxxxxxx

Mamelodi, GT, ZAF

Once we've met for the obligatory coffee, let's go to a concert! I want to go enjoy good music with someone who isn’t afraid to sing. Above all else, I'm looking for someone who makes me laugh. And a beautiful smile doesn't hurt either!
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Lexxxxxx

Chicago, IL, USA

Let's get coffee and chat. The best relationships start with a good conversation. Low pressure relaxed vibe for our first meeting. Also I'm maybe a little bit addicted to coffee. Maybe more than a little.
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Jexxxxxx

Kagithane, Istanbul, TUR

I would love my ideal first date to be at a cafe cause i love coffee so much.I would like us to start as friends and see where it goes . I just want both of us to be comfortable with each other and have a great time 🤗🤗🤗🤗
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adxxxxxx

Matawan, NJ, USA

Cafe on the waterfront. Having a glass of wine laughing and amazed by the atmosphere and conversation. After the cafe we will be Walking on the beach to an amazing sunset holding hands and just appreciating every moment.
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