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djxxxxxx

Eaton, WA, AUS

My ideal date would be a coffee date so that we can focus on talking and getting to know one another. Eating a slice of cake, chocolate of course. Then maybe go for a drive to the beach for a swim and maybe a picnic.
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POxxxxxx

Durham, DUR, GBR

I would love to meet you for a coffee for our first date so we can see how we get along and make future plans. What's your coffee order? Mine is no frills decaff milky two sugars. I am happy for you to choose which café, but if the date goes on longer than we had planned I would love a vote on which restaurant for dinner.
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Stxxxxxx
A social venue with a quite corner for conversation and light refreshments. A soft musical background to relax the mood and enliven the hearts. An outdoor locale where guests could converse freely without being constrained by a facial mask while feeling safe.
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Hexxxxxx

Scottsdale, AZ, USA

I think it depends on the initial chemistry during texting. Having a coffee together is always a good first option but we might learn something cool; a common interest in the beginning that drives the dating activities!
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mixxxxxx

San Francisco, CA, USA

For my first date, I would love to go out for coffee, have brunch, go on a long walk together in San Francisco, exploring places here and there, getting to know one another and have a great time together :)
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trxxxxxx

Iowa City, IA, USA

My ideal first date would take place at one of our favorite coffee shops. I love coffee. Coffee dates are the best dates :) What kind off coffee do you prefer? Black? Cream? Sugar? Iced? Hot? :) let me know!
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ulxxxxxx

Morningside, QLD, AUS

Going to a cafe and grabbing a coffee, talking about where you have travelled, your favourite place to visit. Where I want to travel. Showing you a card trick or magic trick, perhaps we can try and stump the other with riddles
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Mixxxxxx

Nanuet, NY, USA

Everybody’s looking for something a little different. Let’s meet up for a cup of coffee and a slice of cheesecake or carrot cake or hot apple pie with vanilla ice cream and talk about it. Fully vaxed and boosted. Ub2.
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joxxxxxx

Gold Coast, QLD, AUS

I simple elegant first date, without any drama or hassle to plan, just somewhere we can both just meet each other one on one, as we truly are. A great place to prove myself a gentleman to my date. Then a stroll through park or down the street for some fun window shopping. then finally, along the beach for a romantic sunset and a good time to be alone together and peaceful. And, (if all goes well) first kiss signaling a great date
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Haxxxxxx

Buffalo, NY, USA

I love iced coffee!! Just knowing me I'd right away feel comfortable having a good conversation alongside a coffee. There is something about it that is almost romantic to me in a way. Also, who doesn't want a good cup of coffee?
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Gexxxxxx

Springfield, OR, USA

A simple meeting and serious interview to judge each other's compatibility and level of commitment to a potential life long relationship. Sorry to throw that out there, it's just that I've been down this road so many times that I could drive it blindfolded.
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texxxxxx

Johnson Creek, WI, USA

Coffee,drinks,cuddling,netflix,games,maybe su. Traveling,swimming,hottubing,snow tubing,fire pits in winter,campfires,winter camping,sleeping bag made for 2 people,wine tasting,gambling,massage for 2,or me massaging you,
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yoxxxxxx

Acacia, Metro Manila, PHL

No specific ideal first date as long as I am with you. It's fine. I'm not that too picky ................................................................................................................
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jaxxxxxx

Cheboygan, MI, USA

Getting coffee while getting to know each other! I'm way too obsessed with iced coffee ☕️ I loved working as a barista last summer, and plan to do it again. Since then I've been making unique drinks every day! It's my one passion other than photography 📸
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bbxxxxxx

Houston, TX, USA

let's go to a cafe or restaurant to eat especially if it's our first time I prefer to be in public until I become comfortable. I love conversating and getting to know people everybody has their own unique story and I love hearing how other people think. I'm a little awkward but once you get to know me i'm a really likeable and trustworthy person~ just get to know me and you'll see :)
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Kaxxxxxx

WLG, BEL

Just simple conversation trying to know each other and hopefully other things will come up i love staying at my place most of the time so if you also love it it's going to be awesome i would prefer to know about your past so i can avoid hurting your feelings I'm open minded i hope you're too
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sexxxxxx

Anaheim, CA, USA

To grab a cup of coffee talk about our arrangement if you want to talk about your personal self I'm all ears. I know life can get tough sometimes and all you want is a shoulder. We could go to a nice view and look at the city while talking, about our interests.
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grxxxxxx

Glastonbury, CT, USA

Sometimes it’s just as simple as a good conversation over coffee, walk on beach or some great food, but they all need good conversation and some attempts at making you laugh. And end the eveninng or date with wanting to see you again.
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Grxxxxxx

Los Angeles, CA, USA

Grabbing a coffee and go for a walk. Preferably the beach or even go on a hike. I love trying new things to eat so we can eat something together we both haven't tried. Taking a drive around the city to find a new go to spot.
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baxxxxxx

Kansas City, KS, USA

There was many things that I would do for a first date, maybe go get ice cream because that's what my favorite things to do, go for a drive, maybe go on a hike, and I think that will just let me be able to get to know you!!!
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