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Eaxxxxxx
I don't know if there is one perfect environment for a first date. If a long, healthy love relationship, it'd be numerous memories of joy. My favorite will be the one I choose to reflect on that day, likely changing as I think back on our other special moments. With a coffee or adult beverage, we can ask each other questions to learn about each other. With a quieter venue and dinner, we can discover a little more about our tastes, figuratively and literally. Within an environment of art, whether performed live or captured permanently to experience, we see what moves us. We will find commonalities and differences, both equally important to appreciate. It's quite alright to go to the gym right before volunteer work shift for a good cause, or heading to a museum right after attending a sporting event. It is quite acceptable to order dessert before dinner. I want seek a connection to get beyond possible shyness in either of us. Depending on our mood and spark, we can continue the date, or begin planning the next one. Let's talk about the days ahead and visions in the years beyond.
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vexxxxxx

Youngstown, OH, USA

My ideal first date would have to be a sushi dinner and some conversation and then a movie- my preference is Horror but if you have any other ideas, let me know! If you're not one for the traditional dinner and movies, something like a concert or going to a mall is just as good for me ๐Ÿ˜Š
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coxxxxxx
Dinner and drinks at a nice restaurant, time to get to know each other. Maybe live music and dancing after. If more casual or earlier in the day a bookstore cafe for a drink and pastries or a nice outdoor patio with tea or a soda. Regardless of where or when time to chat and listen to each other is key
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Raxxxxxx

Kansas, OK, USA

We can have a romantic picnic on the beach type, of vibe then we can enjoy ourselves, and enjoy the beautiful view, and enjoy the food, and have a good time. Then we could take a romantic walk on the beach.
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Juxxxxxx
Ideal date,... 1st meeting could be coffee or lunch or with small talk.. second meet over dinner at a quiet place where we can talk and get to know little about each other, followed by a couple drinks and hopefully a kiss or two
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kaxxxxxx

Atlanta, GA, USA

We grab yummy dinner and see if we have a good flow (: I think straightforward communication that makes us both comfortable is the best. Joking around and matching each other's energy would be fun. Nothing super extravagant... something we both enjoy too!!
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bixxxxxx
I'm more of a campfire cooking out kinda guy. But like good wine and a nice dinner time to time also with the right person who can make me laugh. I been all around this world and not much i haven't seen, but always open
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baxxxxxx

Houston, TX, USA

How about a nice dinner at someplace I've never been? We can dine out or in and at the end of the date if you're still hungry I might have something else you might like to eat and since that's obviously not enough for me I'm gonna want to watch a movie with you and enjoy some snacks.
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Mexxxxxx

Anerley, NL, ZAF

Something simple, coffee date or night walk talk, get to know each other or stay indoors watch movies or indoors picnic... But as long as it's something simple and beautiful. It can even be a ice cream date
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hfxxxxxx

Albany, CA, USA

It's summer now, I wanna go skydiving. After that fine-dining dinner at COI in San Francisco sounds not bad, then, shopping at Union Square and you take me home. If I'm into you and vice versa we can go on a second date and let's see what we can do more. How does that sound like?
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Joxxxxxx

New York, NY, USA

I will make her some her favorite food and some nice french wine to go with it.make him feel like a KING.It will be a Candle Light Dinner.. I will want to talk and gaze into his eyes in the flickering lights.. We can later decide to go out to the movies to watch some nice movies, after that we will go to night beach where we can have some real fun and enjoy the breeze whilst we hold eachother and try getting to know eachother better.. We can as well have a horse back riding, I like horses alot.. I think they're the beautiful animals God created..
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tixxxxxx

Oudtshoorn, WC, ZAF

wine and dine you at a romantic restaurant,learn as much about you as i can, hopefully a fun and interesting evening followed by me taking you back to my place with drinks and more discovering about each other, romantic music like Francoise Hardy, some Quantro with ice and if the chemistry is right a kiss, and then depending on how you feel i would drop you off back at home?
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coxxxxxx

Clover, SC, USA

My ideal first date wouldn't be anything to crazy. I would love to just get to know the person even if that means ordering take out which I love to do. I would love a date watching a movie and just being able to relax with them.
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Trxxxxxx

Fargo, ND, USA

I'm down for anything fun. Road trip. Hiking. Axe throwing. Dinner. Concert. Shopping. Walking. Anything. Just make it fun or interesting :). Bring me coffee at work. Or watch a movie I'm down outdoors. Indoors. Beach. Camping. Story book land.
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swxxxxxx

Saskatoon, SK, CAN

picking me up for dinner, then taking me somewhere we we can get to know one another a little better. and we can see what happens from there, i'm not shy. ;) looking for a memorable, good time with a experienced man. interested in a experienced, mature man for my first time.
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kexxxxxx
A perfect first date would be an along side beach dinner at night to feel the nice breeze and the waves clashing. Then to end the night, a nice long walk along the beach watching the beautiful view filled with intimacy.
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Brxxxxxx

GUM

In the morning we'd have breakfast after I would take you around my island where I'm from then have lunch after in the warm ocean water on the white sand holding you so close to me in the evening time go see a movie.after roll a joint for you and a joint for me get stoned while walking on the beach in the evening
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moxxxxxx

Virginia Beach, VA, USA

A nice place to eat outside away from people. Drinks untill were both tipsey, then we end the night with your stuff in my mouth while I'm looking in your eyes sucking every drop ofyou give me....
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Jaxxxxxx

Humble, TX, USA

Meet for lunch or dinner, get to know each other, either decide to do it again, upscaled a bit, or hug and walk away. I'm not into drugs or any of that crap, I don't smoke, and I will probably only have one drink. I am into life, and prefer to remember it lol. Just want to get to know you on first date.
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MBxxxxxx

Tewksbury, MA, USA

I hope to meet a fellow foodie who enjoys indulging in the simple guilty pleasures of life. I don't eat out often, but when I do I love to enjoy that experience with another person. It could be a simple burger spot, or even a night in with takeout, but it needs to be good.
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